Thursday, May 28, 2009

Hand in my Pocket

I'm broke but I'm happy
I'm poor but I'm kind
I'm short but I'm healthy, yeah
I'm high but I'm grounded
I'm sane but I'm overwhelmed
I'm lost but I'm hopeful baby

What it all comes down to
Is that everything's gonna be fine fine fine
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is giving a high five

I feel drunk but I'm sober
I'm young and I'm underpaid
I'm tired but I'm working, yeah
I care but I'm worthless
I'm here but I'm really gone
I'm wrong and I'm sorry baby

What it all comes down to
Is that everything's gonna be quite alright
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is flicking a cigarette

What it all comes down to
Is that I haven't got it all figured out just yet
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is giving the peace sign

I'm free but I'm focused
I'm green but I'm wise
I'm shy but I'm friendly baby
I'm sad but I'm laughing
I'm brave but I'm chicken shit
I'm sick but I'm pretty baby

And what it all boils down to
Is that no one's really got it figured out just yet
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is playing the piano

What it all comes down to my friends
Is that everything's just fine fine fine
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is hailing a taxicab...

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Quotes and Poems of the day

Dear all,

-"Dedication, determination and devotion will make you reach your destination."

-"With heat full of passion and curiosity, life will be filled with pain and severity hang on till the day you will reveal your true beauty."

-"Most of the emotions like feelings for sex, lust and so on are generated from human eyes, imagine being blind you will have less feelings for lust."

-"Good Good Bad Bad
Miracles and Misery,
Tenderness and Determinations,
Wisdom and Boredom,
O lord, Give me Problems,
Let me understand, it goes on and on,
Till the very existence of my life,
I will solve your problems, my divine! "

-"I know many of you will hate me, I know many of you will love me, I know what you will think about me but I don't want to say that I have only acceptance, love and faith in all of you simply because you don't have them yet."

God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-"Everybody has some duty to perform in this mother earth, nobody lives without any purpose."

-"Yes, I understand life is adventurous journey and filled with painful, sad and sufferings but above all there will be bad times and good times, everything will come up eventually."

-"One poor boy asked to wise man, 'what is the purpose of my life?', 'Wise man replied, 'World sees everything in duality principal, like where there is darkness, there will be light, when there is day, there will be night, when you will have pain, you will also get pleasure and so on and so forth but boy, the day you will find Oneness will be the day you will find your purpose of life.' "

-"I know right from the beginning what is my personal legend because the creator enjoys the Crown that only King enjoys."

-"Don't try to find just who you are also try to learn who you are not."

God bless you all !


Dear all,

-"The secret of life lies not in falling but failing, getting frustrated and being worthless to world in the fight, being useless in the war but all it takes is one fight, one final click to change the course of war."

-"God created the world in Seven days, Seven minutes of pleasure in bed,
Seven has wide meaning in each scriptures,
Five letters in the word Seven so far,
Act of war is in believing beyond your abilities with persistence, courage & Strong heart."

-"Deception is act of reception, winning or losing is fake in any mission or recession. Simplicity lies in thinking everybody is winner in his own creation."

-"Truth and the Power of Truth lies in the eyes of truthful soul, they have great electromagnetic force which can send signal even in astral world, beyond our universe to any soul whenever, wherever you desire with truth and love in heart and soul."

-"No one is born winner or loser, those are rules we follow, those who fake are faking for short period of time and those who do not fake are born with Truth."

God bless you all !

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Happy Like God

In response to article at Nytimes on title, "Happy Like God", here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Professor Simon,

Nice article on Happiness, I appreciate your insights on one of the vital pills of humanity called "Happiness". I don't have any background knowledge on Philosophy neither do I have any university degree because I have lived my life with only curiosity.

Well, I don't know what is happiness and I don't want to know either. Maybe the happiness lies in the eyes of those who seek to find, maybe happiness is nothing than taboo term these days. I personally think happiness=satisfaction.

Or, Kalwar's law for happiness is very simple, it states that-

"Every individual is born happy during the growth of human beings they learn new things and environment, adaptability remains the key depending upon the situation and circumstances, with changing time, with perceiving Oneness and changing climate, a person will remain happy if he/she will realize true self satisfaction in his/her mind, heart and soul."

Now, it is up to each and every individual to understand the Kalwar law for happiness.

The key elements in the above quoted statments are-

Adaptability, soul, mind, satisfaction, change, heart, environment, happy, growth, human beings, truth, new, situation, learn ...

Now, why did I put the tag in above line? It is because without these factors, majority of human beings will not be happy. This is not claim but a questions to one and all.

Most of the times we imagine true happiness lies only with God and no individual is truly happy as HIM but why not?

We live our life in such a way that we try to find the Happiness but why do you need to find the happiness when it lies just in your eyes. Either you are alone or with your partner, happiness not only lies in the faces or eyes of love but it also lies in your own soul. If you can find the roots of your soul and determine Oneness in each and everything that rolls, happiness is the one which you will get all along.

Here is one link which states the 7 steps for being happy-

Your statement,

"If anyone is happy, then one imagines that God is pretty happy, and to be happy is to be like God. "

states most the answer one would like to know for a individual to remain happy. But what if there is no "ifs and buts", why don't we just see simplicity of love or happiness like early morning sunrise or dawn.? Why don't we take happiness just like Oneness ? Why do we relate happiness with surroundings or people around or play a blame game in normal day to day life?

There will be endless questions on happiness but happiness remains mysterious till date. Understand that happiness is not answer but the feeling inside your soul for self satisfaction.

God bless you all !

Crumbling Foundation

In response to the Nytimes article on title, "On Crumbling Foundation", here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Bob,

Another interesting article on Job cuts and recession. I don't know every morning when we read the news there is at least one or two columns for Recession and Global depression. But anyways, I appreciate your insights on these critical issues.

Yes, Jobs are getting lesser every day and Workforce is increasing higher with every moments. There are large number of Graduates coming out of the University and Graduate Schools and hardly there is job in the market. Be it a private of public sector. Let us not play a blame game here by saying ... is not offering or ... has cut jobs but let us concentrate on how you can create jobs?

I am not so much concerned about the statistics that you have shown in your column and with those bigger and larger futuristic vision, present problems cannot be resolved easily.

With the change in every breath we inhale, every thing we observe, in nature and environment, in policy and reforms, in local affairs and foreign affairs, in developed and developing world, change is going to remain forever along.

Therefore, with changing climate all around us, we need to change in the same manner. I heard the story of the young man who had a college degree and was graduated from the university. He was hired for fixed period of the time in fortune 500 companies, but with recession and depression on rise, Company decided to cut the work force since they cannot pay the payroll and they wanted to increase the workforce in developing world. What a tragedy, the young man lost his job and became the victim of the recession. What is the solution for him?

"I don't think people are not educated or not talented or not skilled, the problem now we have is everybody is so much talented that it is difficult to filter who is best in the great needs.", Said the Wise Man.

Let us see what happens next in the Economy's Front be it your land, America or Europe or other developing world. Time is the greatest story teller of all.

God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-"Warrior knows how, when, where and why because he has answers to all of the questions human's have ever created."

-"Sometimes life is miserable and painful but when you step back for a while, it will accelerate soon."

-"Change is the only thing which is permanent in this world,
Paulo's blog has been changed, economy is changed,
life of millions and billions people in the world is changed,
In every moment of breath we take, change is changing everywhere."

-"Fight not for wisdom, fight for self satisfaction."

-"A professor said, 'think before you speak', to a poor boy and a poor boy replied, 'how did you became professor without thinking?' "

God bless you all !

Press Releases: "25 Sexy Poems"

Mr.Santosh Kalwar has yet another book lined up in his new project entitle, "25 Sexy Poems" published by, This is the Sixth book/e-book written by Mr. Kalwar.

Currently, The book is free to download in an free (only limited time period) e-book version from publisher

Support independent publishing: buy this book on Lulu.

Here is the complete press-release.

Mybheja congratulates the author of the book !

Sunday, May 24, 2009

The Hidden Hunger

In response to Nytimes article on title, "The hidden hunger", here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Mr. Kristof,

Let me first appreciate what you have written-
Well, Good column on "hidden hunger".

Now, let me give opinion on this issue-

People are suffering everywhere be it in Guinea-Bissau, America or Europe. Personally I don't think, The problem lies not in deficiency of iron in the food, the problem lies in storing paper money in the banks for nothing. Those who have more than one homes want to build more homes, those who have more than one car want to buy more cars, those who have collected billion dollars in revenues wants to collect more revenues so on and so forth. I don't want to criticize all the rich people in the world, some of them have shown great respect and donated, worked for better place.,

As you state in your article, The deficiency of iron in the food is everywhere, yes-it seems to be true but what about the excess rate?

What will happen if you will eat iron rich food like red meat, fish, poultry, lentils, beans, leaf vegetables, tofu, chickpeas, black-eyed peas, etc.., in excess?

The hemoglobin from red meat has many side effects which has negative consequences and may increase colorectal cancer.

Although many people will suggest to change the diet plan from Non-veg to Veg.., it personally depends on individual choice and perception towards his own health. There will always be open debate on such issue.

Now coming to the poor nutrition or rich nutrition there is always a choice presented in front of us. These choices are based on first if the food is available or not, second if the food is full of iron and other minerals needed for body and third if the food satisfies out body needs or not.

I personally don't know what Westerners or Easterners think and have conception or misconceptions on malnutrition. I will suggest, change your conception with changing moment as changing time and changing season or changing journey. Even the last statement sounds philosophical it is true. See for example, President Obama Campaign for Change...


Let us not get our hand dirty thinking if enough food is necessary or not or what is needed in the food like iron, calcium, sodium or potassium. First you need to have food in front of you to eat. Without the food, I don't see if you will have malnutrition or lack of ingredients necessary to run the body.

As you have written in your last lines of the column,

"fortification costs virtually nothing..."

Let me ask you one more question-

If the fortification cost nothing then why are you not putting them in food? What is the reason behind not providing fortified food with rich in iron,...? Who is stopping?

Humans are adaptable beings. Without any food, claiming that lack of iron or... elements result into hidden hunger is not justified in this case.

Finally, let me conclude with the words of wise man, He said, "God gave bread and wine equally to each one of us, but how it worked inside us remained mysterious for all of us." Now see- Some have satisfied body with great energy and health and some are dieing because of poverty and disease be it in south, north or east or west.

God bless you all !

Quotes and poems of the day

-”Writing is ….. (fill in the blank yourself).”

-”Writing is writing, love is love, life is life, god is god,
What are you trying to find ?
When creator is confused with creation itself all along,
Leave this question open like sky and universe,
visions, imaginations, dreams, sacrifise, pain, sufferings,
hope, love, faith all lies on the shadows of the writers & writing, my dear lovely heart”

God bless you all !

Friday, May 22, 2009

Image of the day

Mary Cassatt (1844–1926), The Bath Oil on canvas, 1891-92

Good approach

The National Interest Preservation Committee deserves praise for their proposal regarding cross-border movement (“ID cards proposed for cross-border movement”, May 21, Page 4). Once I met a wise man who said the world was not divided and was one happy family. But today the world is divided, and while differences are healthy and necessary, they sometimes breed ill intentions that need to be checked. So it is good to monitor the cross-border movement by making ID cards compulsory for travellers.

Published: The Kathmandu Post
Letters to the Editor

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Quotes and Poems of the day

Dear all,

-"Fear and Desire go hand in hand,
Life and Death are bitter truth,
Move on with hope and faith,
but run with love in you."

-"Warrior studies everything and most importantly light and darkness are on his sides too."

-"Good inspirations are reducing and perspiration are lacking too."

-"I may not speak the truth every time, but during those times I am thinking about truth."

-"Smile even in worries,
Nothing what you do will tarry,
Oh yeah, smile even in worries,
Move on and feel no sorry,
whatever you did is not your worry,
Smile even in worries,
Feel the wind, feel the words,
feel the pain, feel everything like sword,
but remember to smile even in worries
Nothing what you do will tarry. "

God bless you all !

Mass Rape Persists

In response to article at Nytimes on title, "After Wars, Mass Rapes Persist" here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Mr. Kristof,

Very nice column on mass rape persisting on Libya. Well done..,

Yes no one can ignore the violence especially after world war I, II the next war is about sexual violence, social violence, lack of inspirations because of mass depression and economy or recession.

Sexual enlightenment is good thing to have in life but with forced sexual act nobody is going to get such enlightenment. Pleasure and Pain go hand in hand. The stupid thinking that, 'One an get pleasure if another is feeling pain.' is results into Rape or forced sexual encounter.

Women participation in foreign affairs be it in United States or in any country should be highly encouraged. Presently I am living in Finland and I can see why this country has strict rules on social norms. It was uprise of wisdom for a Stranger like me, coming from developing world and observing women participation in most of the official works like Banks, Government offices, Postal office and even in military.

But again it highly depends of metric of cultural aspects too such as "male dominance" and "women dominance". Maybe in case of Mass rape and violence of women rights, "women dominated" society is good.

Very Rarely we hear any news of Man being raped.

Whatever be the case, those with ill intentions will be judged by law or by God himself.

Lastly, Hope someday My daughter will wake up in society where less Mass rapes persists and all the daughters of Congo, Darfur, Bosnia, Rwanda, Liberia and many such places alike, will wake up too...

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-”Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes
Yes, My Lord, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes
Between insanity and vanity lies divinity.”

-”I bow in front of you everyday,
I respect your wisdom everyday,
People have started to judge me,
O Lord, am i insane?
am i evil?
what would i choose in crisis like this?
let me wake up beside you wisdom,
send me angel to guide all around world. ”

-I don’t know what is wisdom or what is inspirations, I know to play with words, I know how to create them, I know how to love them, I know how to inhale them and I know how to present them according to needs of readers, all along.”

-”Wise or fool, insanity or vanity, rose or rude, I am not moved till the world starts to move on my request dooba doo…hulaa luu…”

-”Division is bad, differences could be good, between wise and fools lies insanity and vanity to choose or loose.”

P.S. Please read the fifth e-book/book by your poor writer from Himalaya, free to download.., waiting for your comments and feedback…, Here is the link-

God blesses you all !

Press Releases:"20 Love Poems and the economy crisis"

Mr.Santosh Kalwar has yet another book lined up in his new project entitle, "20 Love Poems and the economy crisis" published by, This is the fifth book written by Mr. Kalwar.

Currently, The book is free to download in an free e-book version from publisher

Support independent publishing: buy this book on Lulu.

Here is the complete press-release.

Mybheja congratulates the author of the book !

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Quotes and Poems of the day

Dear all,

-"who is best and who is worst? Maybe no one,
What is best the light from sun or,
the water which runs down the valley or,
the movements of waves of oceans across the island of none,
fighter or warrior or human needs no plan,
to show, he knows his plans in his mind which works, all the time."

-"Planning fails most of the times and alternatives work most of the times."

-"Warrior is equal and he needs no plan to see sequel,
He can fight the battle in rituals,
In days of light or in dreams of darkness,
with an angel who send him signals,
in gloomy days or groovy nights with mutual demons,
Wake up, Warriors, wake up and go for it,
believe in your self, believe in you,
what matters most is protecting you from enemy which lies
within you, which obstructs your construction,
destroy it with your creation.., wake up warrior..
Oh Oh Oh..., :Yes,,, Yes..., I can see you...,
Wake up..., Yes Warrior..., Yes,,, Woke up...!!! "

-"Unexpected happenings, sufferings, events and actions and beyond human's imaginations, remains mysterious and puzzle yet to solve by tiny little brain of human at delusion."

-"Maybe there is no best or worst,
Let us assume, everybody is best,
Let us not create differences,
Although difficult to measure or suspect,
All is equal, equality lies above duality,
Finding oneness in every deeds and creativity,
World is One, everything should be One,
When there is oneness, I know, We will overcome
pain, sufferings, sadness and fights of violence
which remains pity, witty and shitty...., "

God bless you all !

Monday, May 18, 2009

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-”Warrior does not see if the environment is mountain or plain, for warrior their is no barrier, neither their is boundary of earthy materials.”

-”Eyes of warrior are most brightest of all, it is the eye of God himself.”

-”Warrior can disguise human thoughts, change feelings, emotions, move on in most difficult circumstances and heal pain of those who are in need.”

-”We are ruled by cupid, world moves on romanticism, life is nothing but a mirror reflection of deeds and moments long cherished.”

-”Mountains are hopes in human life, they always challenge to our tiny little brain and ask, ‘can you climb me?’, they questions our mission to accomplish adventure on walking them.”

God bless you all !

Obama Speaks at Notre Dame

Travelling Drama

“Travelling Drama”

Unexpected events, wake up to buy ticket,
I was thrilled to go home, after 2 years of holy stake,
It was me, and my dear friend, Mr. panthi
Who were, fooled by mysterious event of, journey?

Around midnight, we started to purchase ticket
Online, fucking and idiot internet business,
Panthi was using Window’s Vista,
Sucking keyboards and unknown, Vittu interface,

I paid the money for ticket,
Was just checking the ‘no reply’, automatic emails,
From online, ticket seller of Sweden,
Homosexual service of travelling set,

Mr. Panthi said, “Oh my god, I did great mistake”
Fuck, “what the hell are you talking”, I said.
Panthi slapped hand on his forehead,
Said, “Dates were exchanged and it was big mistake”

I could not believe it, remaining three friends,
Mr. Pokharel, Kandel and Shrestha were beeping,
Smoked cigarettes after cigarettes,
Panthi asked to change,
My wish of living longer for holidays

Fucked by Swedish travelling online retail set,
Send e-mail just after the so called mistake,
Waited and changed even mind now,
To live shorter for holidays,

Following day talked with great two angels,
Said my problems and wishes which were going to fail,
Just after angels and my conversations,
I was notified by travelling online retailers,
They are going to refund the money,

Unexpected fucking mistake was solved,
The problems were resolved,
Mr. Panthi and I were laughing at world,
All my friends or so called my disciples
Smiled with me and world was happy, all over
To read this great poem of travelling drama and fun

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Image of the day

Eurovision 2009 Song Winner: Norway


Years ago when I was younger
I kinda’ liked a girl I knew.
She was mine, and we were sweethearts,
That was then, but then it’s true

I’m in love with a fairytale
Even though it hurts.
‘Cause I don’t care if I lose my mind;
I’m already cursed

Every day we started fighting,
Every night we fell in love.
No one else could make me sadder,
But no one else could lift me high above

I don’t know what I was doing
But suddenly we fell apart.
Nowadays I cannot find her.
But when I do we’ll get a brand new start

I’m in love with a fairytale
Even though it hurts.
Cause I don’t care if I lose my mind;
I’m already cursed

She’s a fairytale
Even though it hurts.
Cause I don’t care if I lose my mind;
I’m already cursed

Friday, May 15, 2009

Lines of Sadness

Dear all,

-"Every moment is different, every situation is different and every action should be different."

-"What has been done will never be done again but what we can dream or wish can be fulfilled with fairness in heart again and again."

-"Mother earth changes her season, human nature is changed with different season but give me one reason why people should change love for either mother earth or human."

-"Quotes, lines, text, words everything remains virtual,
Reality lies in pain and sufferings where no one remain sustainable,
Who's life is not filled with sadness?,
Even God has to suffer in humanity and madness,
My words of wisdom are precious than universe,
All we need is love, please overcome fear
To harness beauty and long lasting peace,
Oh my dear humble soul, where should I rest in peace?"

-"What is summer and what is winter? Change in climate
Where is North and where is south? Position in globe
Where is East and Where is west? Position in globe
what you desire is your necessity? Isn't it?
O poor child, wake up to this reality

Dreams of hungry child in Africa,
Death due to starvation in developing countries,
In developed, desires remain still unfulfilled,
When will you wake up to this reality?

Human, unsatisfied, unhappy soul,
remains till in physical clothe,
When I die today, will it make any difference to world?
Poor child, you need to wake up to this reality,
But I know you remain, mysterious all alone"

God bless you all !

Quote of the day

Darkness kissing my feet, I walk like cupid, giving love to all those who are in need, my journey never ends till light will starts to sing.

Poor boy and Wise man

Dear all,

Enter Poor boy and Wise man, in "life changing park"

Act I, Scene I

Poor boy: Who am I?
Wise man: You are nobody.
Poor boy: What? My name is Steve and I live in Dallas, I have my family and everything, why are you saying that I am nobody?
Wise man: You know your name, which is given by somebody but you have not understood yourself, therefore you are nobody.
Poor boy: How can I understand myself?
Wise man: People in the world are doing good business over this question, they are teaching meditation, yogas and many techniques to self understand yourself... but I will not say anything to you.
Poor boy: why not, sir?
Wise man: You are born with desires,
Your name is in fire, only way to understand
Is to monitor your daily habit,
Control your life with will to share, care
Hurt no one and beg for well beings,
Do it yourself, nobody will see in you

Meditation, yoga, programs are act of fools
Who can tell you to know better you?
O poor child and humble soul, Love yourself,
Stand alone and become winner of your crown,
World is mixture of shining and falling clowns,
Read your mind with utmost curiosity and desires

Poor boy: Well, I don't still understand what you are trying to say but I hope it makes some sense..,
Wise man: This is the first step to understand yourself.
Being nobody is being somebody and in being somebody
you are not alone. The universe if your heavenly father
and earth is your mom.
Poor boy: Thank you, I will now onwards learn to understand myself.
Wise man: Say no thank you, my child.
Say no sorry, life is like of Mary,
In pain and In sorrows of ferry,
Creator was one and you are your own,
Even this world was created in confusion;

Hope, Faith and Love drives humanity,
Sufferings and Pain results into vanity,
Infinite wisdom is beauty and customization
I am nobody till I live fleshy and bloody


God bless you all !

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-”Reason and season, tomorrow and today, every now and then, life is filled with stupid questions randomly in raining day.”

-”Do this before that, is old therapy new one is still waiting to come, days are like days where nothing seems to make more fun.”

-”Any battle is half won if you will understand your enemy and any battle is half lose if you will fail in understanding your own warriors.”

-”Warrior of light or light of warrior
I am here to fight till my career
Life is beautiful and painful
Love is shaking and deadly
All I have left now,
is eternal light, of holy might
I am Warrior of light
even in midnight …….. ”

-”People say, ‘do not worry, do not feel sorry’, I will say, ‘worry and feel sorry but hang on till that very day when world will make curry and let you celebrate with Ms. Friday in lorry.”

God bless you all !

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-"I am not here to give any opinion, I am here to speak, listen your comment and write what HE told me to write with bright eternal light."

-"I am no preacher neither I am advising something to do, I am just letting you explore beyond universe, stars and heaven."

-"It is my mood which creates the weather, it is my karma which will give me fruitful results."

-"Sex, sex and more sex, love is not sex misspelled neither love is lust, beauty of sex will make you mad in horrifying nights but beauty of love will shake your heart kissing in twilight."

-"All I have written will be destroyed and all what will be written too."

God bless you all !

Monday, May 11, 2009

Face of love

In response to Paulo's question on his blog, here is what mybheja has to say-

Dear Paulo,

Q)can we never discover the face of love?

A) No, we will never discover the face of love. There are many reasons behind it and those reasons does not allow to show the face of love. Some of the reasons are-

1. Those who are in love or rather true love and wants to be together throughout life forever have to trust each other than universe has trusted on earth, stars has trusted on gravity, moon has trusted on light of sun and mother earth has trusted on lights.

2. In Christianity, women was evolved from limb of a man. In Hinduism, women existed together with men and similarly in other scriptures or religion.., women existed together with men. I don't know what is on women's mind but I surely know what drives her on darkest of nights. Love.

3. Laws made by humans are another barrier, war between the families and especially those who are caretakers sometimes turned into too much care takers. e.g. Romeo and Juliet of Shakespeare ...

There could be many more such barriers but let me stop here now with few additional quotes.

-"Love has no faces and searching for humanly faces will not give love."

-"We humans see physical body and organ to get the feelings and tie nots or bots of marriage, togetherness and life long commitment when love is above such attachments."

-"Please don't search to see the faces of love they lies in your reflection."

-"When love ignites, problem multiples and difficulty collides."

-"Love is above everything: religion, race, culture, country and life."

Now, it is up to us to decide, if you want to be "happy and satisfied" without seeing the face of love or remain in "despair and sufferings" by seeing the face of love. The choice is yours, as always !

God bless you all !

Saturday, May 9, 2009

The day I will die

"The day I will die"

Death is not working of biological organ in human body. The input of oxygen and output of carbon dioxide is major event which drives our life. There are many types of death, one which is caused naturally and others with specific reasons such as accident, crime, violence, suicide, bombings, and many more which are termed unnatural. More than 90% of living humans are fearful of death. In my own life, I have not found any one who does not fear death. One question which drives me to write this article, why are we so much fearful of death? What will happen on the day, I will die? The major reason behind being fearful of death is because we cannot overcome addiction of love. We cannot overcome self and personal attachments. We are tightly linked with love of our family, of our child, of our wife, of our country, of our religion, of our society and so on. The fear is also because the lack of our own self in order to fail to surrender. Most of the times we are escaping from our self. The missions, goals and dreams which we develop may come true or may not but the time will come when we all have to go someday, living everything behind us. Religion will teach us to believe in afterlife, reincarnations and science will deliver us the fact and stats behind the reasons for death. One wise man once said, “To understand death, you need to understand life and go beyond the death, living life for only one day.” I was greatly touched and influenced by that wise man. Maybe he is right, how can we understand death without first understanding life? There are always the things which we want to accomplish tomorrow, if we cannot live for today, how can we live tomorrow? These statements are absolutely true.

Now, what will happen when I will die? I have my personal life, I have done something and I am trying to do something more but will it make any difference to my family, or, will it make any difference to my material life which I have gained, what will happen to my blog which is updated every day?, what will happen to my secret passwords, my secret love, my secret bank account, my secret username and password in e-mails, my secret stuffs and many more such secrets.. Will it make any difference, I don’t think so. Those who are public figures will get high attention and the whole world will know that personality is no more and I understand this, because they are the people whom we trust, society trusts and country loves. I asked the same question to the wise man stating, “what will happen on the day I will die?”, the wise man said, “don’t worry; you will take a nice long break from this unhappy materialist world and you will wake up when this materialistic world will be happy again.”

Far from over

In response to article at Nytimes on title, "Far from Over",here is what my bheja has to say--

Dear Mr.Bob,

Thank you very much for the stats and analysis of Job market.

It is depressing to read that people do not have jobs even with four or five years after college or university degree. It is true. In my own personal case, I have been struggling to get one after completing 18 years of schooling.

With job comes the security and without job there is crisis.

I am fortunate that I am not in United States to feel the heat but even though I am in Europe, same story continues everywhere.

Being stranger in Europe, I have come to the conclusion that- The whole economy in world is going through some kind of transformation phase. One wise man once asked the lord, "Why do I fail?" Lord said, "I give you failure as I give you success so that you will better understand life."

God bless you all !

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Girls on our streets

In response to article on Nytime on title, "Girls on Our Streets", here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Mr. Kristof,

With all due respect, you article is very informative and at the same time detailed information has been provided about teenagers on the streets.

Google hit of the keyword 'sex' will result into 718,000,000 links in 0.09 seconds. By this fact only, we can clearly understand what is the basic necessity of humans. This falls under Maslow's hierarchy of needs. This is still OK but it become NOT OK when desires, passion, love and romance exceed into violence. When it starts to cross the boundaries of humanity and goes above natural law, then basic need become basic seed of pain, frustration, crime, violence, non-social acts and deeds.

I am no expert on women violence or crime but I have seen and heard the story of my close friends who has gone through the same situation and experiences. Yes, even to read such articles brings sadness in the tears and frustration of inhuman act.

Back in 80's, One wise man said-"Money can't buy everything." Today in 21st, One young child said-"Money can buy everything."

The same philosophy applies in today's context, if you have money you can even buy sex as you have mentioned of the 14 year teenagers and pimp.

I am not aware if on the streets of America you can find 14 year teenagers being the victim of prostitution and sex work. and, I have never seen it so I will not give any comment regarding such scenarios.

But I would say, in general the world is populated with stupid and violent mindset when it comes to sex. There are many such cases in developing world as you have mentioned India, Nepal, Thailand among others. I know the developed world also has the same problems.

Women are same either they are in developing world or they are from developed world. The crime is same and the violence is same.

The problem is not the solution and the solution remains very problematic.

I can give more harsh comment on this issue. It is important for all men in the world to understand following-

1. Before doing any such crime of sex or prostitution act think of the pain being women.
2. What would you do when your own children are involved in such case ?
3. Stop it please, for god's shake.

Taking religion into account, many religion experts would give different opinions on 'how to get enlightened?' The core message of being enlightened is to overcome 'maya' or 'inner desires'.

I don't ask anyone to suppress personal desire, I am asking to limit inhuman act on women. But even if I will do research on women entire my life, I will not be able to find out 'what's on women's mind?' Therefore,

Lastly, I would stop saying the quote from unknown author which states, "When a man talks dirty to a woman, it's sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95 a minute."

God bless you all !

Collective Worship

In response to the Paulo's question on "Collective Worship", here is what mybheja has to say-

Dear all,

Have you noticed that you are putting your own words and one of the blogger in this blog, ‘karen’ is ill ???

Come on fellas, pray for her–She is sick as she has written, look on the top of the comment section with her post.

May God bless ‘Karen’ !
May she overcome her illness…

I don’t know what is collective worship, I don’t care about other’s fucking opinion and I don’t give a damn on any books on worship, all are nonsense and stupid ideologies. I care to those who are close to me and I care to those who are in need of me, I care to those who knows me. I am worried about their’s problem and I am depressed if they are depressed, I am happy if they are happy because that is only thing which is important to me.

(If you will put the above statement line by line, it will become poem, if you will put those sentences in paragraphs that will become short article/opinion/thoughts… and if those words will be written or said by prophets or gurus then it becomes scriptures.)

To: Karen for her wellness…
Come on human being, wake up
I made you, you didn’t made me
I don’t ask you to pray me
I never did, Instead
You did and still doing it,

Wake up and rise to rising sun,
pray for other like you,
I am happy if you will help others,
around you, for you, with you,
dance in the occasion
rest in the sensation
worship for humanity
you will get instantly

God bless you all !


Dear all,

Q)What would be your view in the term ‘cheating’ and ‘faithful’ in a relationship?

A)If you have not kept relationship then the term, 'cheating' and 'faithful' would have different meanings but as you have asked 'in a relationship...' so these two words has little narrow scope. Here is what I would say,

In a relationship, 'cheating' is seen as sin, a crime, negligence, dominance. When you lack trust then you start to judge and show symptoms of different kinds of behavior to your partner. The lack of trust and lack of personal gain be it a sex, a change or different settings will result into cheating of the faithful partner. There are many settings and many scenarios for the cheating. The most common is girl having an affair with third party or, guy having an affair with third party.

-"To cheat your partner means lack of your own personal strength to satisfy your partner."

-"Cheating could could be because of lack of trust, change, motivation and satisfaction."

-"In today's world, very few or rarely you will find the true partner who will not cheat."

-"Only those chosen few are true lovers who believe in the power of love and respect mother, nature, self, humanity and environment. In addition those lovers remain as Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet Love story."

-"Cheating is a best medicine if you are not satisfied with your partner, go for it."

Now coming to another word which is, 'faithful'--

Do you believe in God? If you do, then you also believe in beauty, beast, demons and devils. If you don't then also you believe in beauty, beast, demons and devils.

In Christianity there is Satan, in Hinduism, there is Rawan, ...Similarly, ask yourself how much faithful are you with your own self? Can you kill the demon inside you? Can you live one year without having sex? Can you distance yourself with your partner and wait for him/her as long as he/she would come back again to see you? Can you...?

If your answer is 'yes, I can'
You are faithful child.
If your answer is 'no, I can't'
you are unfaithful child.

-"Believe or not to believe is your personal interest and it does not matter as long as you can alway change the your thinking according to time."

-"Being faithful in a relationship is like being faithful to the mother like a child."

I can write more but you should ask for it.

God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-"Acceptance and rejection are part of everyday life, HE accepts everything and rejects none."

-"Mixture of life is between the Moments of pleasure and moments of sadness, sometimes in cyclic order and sometimes in linear order."

-"Those who can find out differences among their own moments are very close to God and those who are not are close, but true realization of God is unimportant, true realization of self is more important."

-"One poor child asked to wise man, 'Sometimes I am sad and sometimes I am happy, what is the difference?' Wise man replied, 'During sad times you are taking your time to gain energy and during happy times you are throwing them out.' "

-"Birds are singing, winds are changing-direction
World is moving, but this poor life
is broken, frozen and deemed in frustration."

God bless you all !

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-”There is no name of God and there should never be any name, he/she/it was called God and it remains as only God.”

-”All our actions are HIS reactions.”

-”Always human misunderstood, God with different prophets of religion when they all wanted to say, ‘Believe in your inner soul and beauty of its action, those are all made for you and only you’, Wake up my child, be accountable to your duty.”

-” As Majority of human, fingers are not same similarly, it is good to accept the world as it is and not what our fantasy world sees.”

-”In my mind, you live; in my heart, you seat; in you soul, you wake up.”

God bless you all !


Dear all,

What is eye? Is it a physical organ? Or,
Just a biological one of the senses,
Can we assocociate eyes with
source of light, knowledge and lessons
Or, Should we think eyes for passion?

Great Paulo asked, "what do you associate with eyes?"
Should I associate with pain? Or,
Should I associate with material gain?
Is it a perception?
Is it the mirror of reflection?

Even minds capture images through eyes,
Someone even said, "beauty lies in eyes of beholder",
What is this eye?
Oh dear God, Oh my humble Soul
Can you let me know,
If eyes is beauty,
Should I associate with hasty?

A human Life without eyes,
Cannot see the beauty of world,
Miracles of universe,
Passionate love,neither
Pleasure to lust

What should I associate with eyes?
I am poor, humble soul
God is me and I am HIM,
Should dear eye, I associate
Should you dissociate?

My poor poem is full of question,
I am curious to find answer,
Maybe you are answer to humans,
Through your sense,
You give us perception

Love, lust, passion, devotion
All is because of you,
All is love and all is you,
Alas, I remain observer in reflection


God bless you all !

Monday, May 4, 2009

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-"Those who are leaders to fight the battle might know the consequences of the battle in the end."

-"War is the language of violence and those who think war is the only solution are narrow minded."

-"Human beings are born warrior, during childhood they fight to learn environment, during adulthood they fight to learn romance and during later part of their life they fight for wisdom."

-"Non-violence is the best medicine for peace, prosperity, war and many problems which are related to humanity."

-"The input and output of any war by warriors are decided by warrior himself."

God bless you all !

Falling wage

In response to article published in Nytimes on title, "Falling Wage Syndrome" by PAUL KRUGMAN, here is what Mybheja has to say-


With all due respect, your article is very interesting and nicely informative.

Yes people are suffering because of wages cut and high competition on the job market is one reason behind such decline. There is always a chance of expecting the unexpected when it comes to present job crisis. As you said, "saving" is the best option which normally people are looking at.

At this current downturn of not and bots, What matters most is protecting what matters. Be it a Job or Health (Swine Flue..,)

Being Stranger, I cannot argue if America is going to become like Japan in case of wages decline but I think America is truly a great nation which always can come back to its originality. I personally like America since you have shown us how to "build" and "create".

You have very optimistic and confidence president, with proper advisers and proper plans, I hope the decline in wages will not flatter the entire economy.

Personally I think that, mostly this decline is because of "outsourcing", the more you send your work outside of your country especially in developed countries like India etc., in cheaper wages, the less your people will be recruited.

The companies always look for lower wages workers and higher sales. Because of such strategy, the work is being transmitted to cheaper workers in developing world.

Although, a lot research and brilliant thoughts could be put on this issue. I would like to stop by quoting Martin Luther King, "All progress is precarious, and the solution of one problem brings us face to face with another problem. "

Tharu banda

It seems the common citizens of our country will never find peace and prosperity (“Tharu banda enters day 10”, May 2, Page 4). It would be nice if bandas and chakka jams were carried out without hampering people's daily life. Because of the Tarai banda, people in the capital are having a hard time getting basic commodities. Why doesn't our government address the demands of the protesters? As Martin Luther King said, “A riot is the language of the unheard.”

Published: Letters to the Editor
The Kathmandu Post

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Princess and Poor Priest Son

I saw a dream today, as everybody sees some dreams my dream was very romantic and very sad at the same time. The dream was about a love affair of princess with a poor priest child. There was a princess and her mother, the princess was going to get married and the princess mother invited priest to see the proper man for her daughter’s wedding. The princess, princess mother, priest and poor priest son was in one room checking for man for the wedding. Princess saw few man and she rejected them. After a short while, princess said to her mother, “mama, I like the priest son, he is the one who will make be happy, I know.., please mama, can I marry him?” princess mother was not happy with such response. She said, “no, the poor priest guy cannot get married with you, I would never allow this to happen…” princess was very sad and she started fighting with her mother but her mother never agreed for her proposal.

The poor guy saw in the eyes of princess and through their eyes the electrical signal of love passed on to their hearts, they both started communicating and felt that they will not be together… poor priest child was sad too…

Poor priest child said,

Oh sweet, beautiful princess
Love is the great sin,
Although, our heart is same,
World will never feel the pain
I was made for you, but
World insane will divide for material gain

Tears in heaven, useless as it remains
This bloody earth,
Is not for lovers in rain

She is your mother will you leave her?
For this poor priest son,
I cannot promise anything,
But I can promise,
Togetherness, trust, and love ever and ever again
Please don’t worry,
For happiness and satisfaction
Was born only with them

Tears in heaven, useless as it remains
This bloody earth,
Is not for lovers in rain

The dream was over and the new day started, the day where there were no vital pills for humanity such as love, hope and faith. The priest son hanged himself and died, because he thought world is full of material gain, nothing exits only money which remains and world is dividing for pleasure to gain.

Image of the day

Saturday, May 2, 2009


Dear all,

Here is one Poem written by your poor writer from Himalaya.


The poem is about one old man who is in despair. He is confused and wants to know where he could find peace. He does not know if peace has any form or beauty. He see that all his life he wanted to reach for the glory of peace but he hasn't found peace. Mostly there are thousands of question in his mind to learn and know about Peace.

Oh Mr. Peace, Who are you?
Where are you and How are you?
I am confused, life is in despair
My friend said, "He needs peace."
Where would your path prevail?

Do you live in humans? Or,
Do you have your own home?
Are you unattainable? Or,
You always heal the wound.

Are you Utopian? Or,
Are you just mere Word.
Should I find you inside me?
Should I walk pilgrimage? Instead,
I am in despair,
Where are you Sir Peace?

Life is like a poem
Only sorrow and pain
War in world
Humanity insane
I am confused to find you Sir Peace

When I am silent, in deep breath
Nobody around, in loneliness
I find inner peace,
Please let me know, if that's you

When I wake up, I see,
Sunlight falling on my face
Sounds of Bird Chirping
and Wind touching my hairs
Shivering and Kissing my body
Please let me know, if that's you

When I read news,
My heart bleeds hearing disease,
Pain, Suffering, Sorrow, Poverty
War, Rape, Addiction, Suicide
Murder, Homicide, Politics
Please let me know, if that's you

Will there be you, in war,
Can I find you before or after any disaster
Oh Mr. Peace, Who are you?
Where are you and How are you?

Opinions are many, very few are in peace
thy peace is peaceful
Pieces makes peace
Mr. or Mrs. Peace
Bring light, glory and your holy
Presence to cease

God bless you all !

Friday, May 1, 2009

Q&A: What is more important Love or trust?

Dear all,

Q)If you have to choose between a person you love and a person you trust in, which one would you choose? In other words, what’s more important in a relationship: love or trust?

A)Choose that person whom you love because the person whom you love, is the person whom you already trust, and that person whom you are trusting or have started to trust, you will slowly start to love.

Mr. A is lovable and Mr. A is nice, trustworthy. Choose Mr. A
Mr. A is not lovable and Mr. A is nice, trustworthy. Choose or Not

In relationship, love cannot proceed without trust and those who are trustworthy not necessarily are capable of love.

To be in safe side, as Paulo did- it is better to say, "Both".

But, Nothing is above Love nor below love. It is love which moves the earth, it is love which brings the sunlight and energy, it is love which makes you awake and enlightened. Without love there is nothing, everything will be void, everything will explode and erode.

God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-"Every individual has two lives inside him/her, one is physical and another is real."

-"As we have mind and heart, we make our decision based on mind and heart, those who walk the path of heart will find satisfaction and those who will walk the path of mind will find material possession."

-"I am living many lives because I have to live for many individual. But sometimes it could be one live for inner peace and another live of virtual reality."

-"Everything is based on duality principal either it be science or religion but once start to see Oneness in everything and every deeds, you will be overcome grief and sorrows."

-"Oh dear, How many lives do I have? None
Come on, Religion teaches for two lives
Science says, "0 and 1"
Whom would I trust? None
Between religion and Science
Look inner inside
You will see only ONE. "

God bless you all !