Showing posts with label real world. Show all posts
Showing posts with label real world. Show all posts

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Living on the Edge

Lyrics:

There's something wrong with the world today
I don't know what it is
Something's wrong with our eyes

We're seeing things in a different way
And God knows it ain't His
It sure ain't no surprise
(YA!)

(Chorus)
We're livin' on the edge
We're livin' on the edge
We're livin' on the edge
We're livin' on the edge

There's someting wrong with the world today
The lightbulb's gettin' dimmed
There's meltdown in the sky

If you can judge a wise man
By the color of his skin
Then mister, you're a better man than I

(Chorus)
We're Livin' on the edge
You can't help yourself from fallin'
Livin' on the edge
You can't help yourself at aaaaaaaall!
Livin' on the edge
You can't stop yourself from faaaaaaaallin'
Livin' on the edge


Tell me what you think about our sit-u-a-tion
Complication - aggravation
Is getting to you

If chicken little tells you that the sky is fallin'
Even if it wasn't would you still come crawling
Back again - I bet you would my friend
Again & Again & Again & Again & Again

Tell me what you think about our situation
Complication - aggravation
Is getting to you

If chicken little tells you that the sky is fallin'
Even if it was would you still come crawling
Back again - I bet you would my friend
Again & Again & Again & Again

Something right with the world today
And everybody knows it's wrong
But we can tell 'em no
Or we could let it go
But I would rather be a hanging on

(Chorus)
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

(Repeat Chorus)







Monday, May 4, 2009

Falling wage

In response to article published in Nytimes on title, "Falling Wage Syndrome" by PAUL KRUGMAN, here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Sir PAUL KRUGMAN,

With all due respect, your article is very interesting and nicely informative.

Yes people are suffering because of wages cut and high competition on the job market is one reason behind such decline. There is always a chance of expecting the unexpected when it comes to present job crisis. As you said, "saving" is the best option which normally people are looking at.

At this current downturn of not and bots, What matters most is protecting what matters. Be it a Job or Health (Swine Flue..,)

Being Stranger, I cannot argue if America is going to become like Japan in case of wages decline but I think America is truly a great nation which always can come back to its originality. I personally like America since you have shown us how to "build" and "create".

You have very optimistic and confidence president, with proper advisers and proper plans, I hope the decline in wages will not flatter the entire economy.

Personally I think that, mostly this decline is because of "outsourcing", the more you send your work outside of your country especially in developed countries like India etc., in cheaper wages, the less your people will be recruited.

The companies always look for lower wages workers and higher sales. Because of such strategy, the work is being transmitted to cheaper workers in developing world.

Although, a lot research and brilliant thoughts could be put on this issue. I would like to stop by quoting Martin Luther King, "All progress is precarious, and the solution of one problem brings us face to face with another problem. "

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Who am I?

The event took place in the Trivuwan Airport in Kathmandu. A young handsome looking, he seemed like very important rushed into this airport, jumped the queue, went straight to the counter and showed his passport and the ticket.

The gentleman at the counter said, “Sir, please stand in the queue”. The person replied, “No, I’m really in hurry I need to go.” The gentleman again said, “Please wait in the queue”.

The man said, “Do you know who I am?” The gentleman at the counter picked up the microphone and said, “There is a man here who does not know who he is, can somebody help him?”

The biggest problem for all of us is that, we all are in the same state as of this young man. The question, “Can somebody help him”?

The question justifies that every body is existing in this mother earth without knowing Nature of who he/she is. We are making life without understanding the fundamentals of whom we really are; we are trying to create a life of unknown. There is confusion.


The very first question that comes in my mind is that, “who am I”? It is one of the most profound and very important questions one has to ask in their life.

How can you know some one else life without knowing who you are? Charles Darwin gave the theory of “Natural Selection”, but he forgot to mention one theory of “Nature of Existence”. In this theory, every person should ask-who am I? Am I a student, Am I a teacher, Am I a political leader? Or Am I nobody.

The first and foremost thing one should do with their life is to ask these questions to understand who they really are. If we do not know what the nature of our existence is, we live by accident.

There is no reality in living by accident. It appears that we are living by accident, by assumptions and by opinion. And the zest of finding the reality appears. Some times there might be a feeling of no reality.

The question, “Who am I?” exits inside our body, in our mind. Once we remove the surface nonsense example, I am very famous singer, artist, son of great political leaders etc. The removal of such surface nonsense will give us the answer to the question, “who am I?”

When there is nothing remaining in your answer, that is the biggest thing. The answer you were searching for comes from this nothing. The question does not come from mere curiosity but straight from the heart. The answer to this question can some time tear people, once you know the reality, you will stick to it.

One day, a friend asked me the same question and I replied him saying, the words of Gautama Buddha which states, “It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours.

It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.” This is what Buddha said, and this is what I say to those who ask who am I, “I am what I really Am., and not what others make of me..,”

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Unstable mind.

Every day a success does not come you way and the success means not the achievements but getting things done as per your own expectations and experiences.It is not the life but the life with all smaller events that makes life different and challenging.

When a mind is not working prolerly, everything goes wrong and nothing works as per the mind planning activity and as yesterday, today is the same too. A real thing in life is controlling your mind. It is great challenge and the question bigger than the question iteself. It is to our mind which makes our understanding more clear and more specific to the time line or subject line.

When a person knows how to live, he will not know where to go and when he knows how to love he will not know what is love. Everything is so like puzzle and everything has to be first solved by mind. It has to be made very clear and simple. A real challenge is not in living but living with joy and madness. Living full of potential.

A purpose of life and life of purpose is different.When you are angry with yourself everything goes wrong. A person should learn to love himself. A loving part is very difficult and very complicated not because it is for one self but to others as well. One has to learn how to love oneself first. Loving oneself requires great bit of motivation and hard work. How can you love yourself ?

Can you say that your body is nice or you look beautiful or handsome or something like that or can you just say your physical body part is nice and you love yourself or is it different than loving your physical body part.

If it is different than loving your physical body part or is it the same ? How is loving physical body and love different ? Everything when tasted once, and after the liking of thing it becomes habit. Just like an addiction. A cigrate once tasted goes on beyond the likeness and it becomes addiction and later habit. Once it is changed to habit it will not be easily turned back to a normal stage.

Sex is something similar, we just first wants to taste it after getting a good taste of it we want to get more deeper into it. Once we go more deeper taste it usually becomes a addiction, In the process of wanting more then the "want" turns into habit. A habit then does not usually want to change easily.

It goes on and on. Even if you want to change or just think of changing it..,It will not change easily. It will then need a real hard work to let it go or do give up the habit that you have adapted. How many of us will live without sex ? How many of the kinds that are present in this world will live as per them and not per others. ? The last question means, can you live as per your heart ? Can you go and do everything as per you own mind surely it will be difficult because we get influenced by outside or outside society. We generally do not go and live as per our own heart.

A big challenge is living a life just as we want and not as others will make us to live. It is good to look at ours own personal habit and do things according to the personal desire. The mind which is disturbed will always talk disturbing things and the mind which is stable, cool and calm is relaxed mind. A relaxed mind will give best even in the times of difficulty.

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Habit and NO

The time I start putting the words in my blog, it started to rain and it was pleasant climate which showed that there needs to be put something, everything is very cyclic and happens every day. All these things happen every day and some time I wonder why ? Why can not a person live without food in a day, why cannot a sun light does not show up normally next day and why is there darkness ?

These questions are very uncommon only because such event does not happen and if it does then there is great reason behind it. A person is normally who eats food everyday but is there any possibility that he can live without it ? Yes, he can but he will still need to eat something other day to survive. Why are we following such habit of doing the things that we have been taught right from our childhood ? Some times, see yourself and do things differently it will give you a lot of pleasure.

Now, the big question is how can a habit which has build inside us can be changed ? A habit is formed by us and no body else. A habit is our daily activity of doing the things same on every day one common example would be- smoking a cigarette, promoting cigarette to cigar and going further with itself. It gives pleasure to many, to some it reliefs from pain and to some it removes the tension from the body or from the mind. You will find thousand different answers from thousand people who have adopted the habit of smoking or drinking or some habit which is harmful but still people do not like to change.

A change people is one who can quit his habit and is very flexible to himself and to others. A person who is born within a boundary will always remain or try to be in boundary just because he has not seen the outside world. He do not know what is beyond that boundary. One example would be- a girl who lives her life typically eats healthy food checking her calories every day, goes for daily makeup, comb her hair daily, is neat and clean and visit doctors every once in week for regular check up. She is very health cautious and is very strict on her own schedule of doing things. Now such person is keeping the boundary or making her boundary of herself-she is limiting herself by letting her do this- and do that- Nothing beyond this should be done by her.

A girl is living in her boundary and she knows exactly what to do every day but one day she is migrated to rural India. Now, Imagine her situation-she is doing nothing what she used to do. She is not going to visit the doctor every once in week because no doctors are availaible, She do not have proper diet food or food with regular check up of calories and she could not comb her hair daily just because there are too much of dust which makes every person look dirty next 30 seconds. Now, In such situation can a girl adopt to such an environment ?

To adopt to such a environment she has to change her habit and she has to be completely free, free her mind and should not care about anything except open sky and deep oceans. The point is to adopt to bigger world you have to leave smaller world. All those people who smoke, who have a habit of drinking, who have a habit of pornography, who are addicted to some thing are living in smaller world and to jump from smaller to bigger they have to change there habit and see how it feels when you do not do the things you like most-just for a day or two and then entire life.

Next thing is there are times when we have wasted our energy just because we never learnt to say NO. Just say no, when you think some body is taking your time. You are the one and you have every rights to living a life not for others but for yourself. Just say NO without any hesitation when you think it is not appropriate or not worth full to you. Think about these things and try to figure out in a day how you recover from these things.

Go on carry on life is to fight with yourself than others
Greatest wise is that person who can forgive greatest enemy

Always remember we are no black and no whites
We all come from same place and we will go to the same place

Rituals might be different, custom may be different
Smile is same in every country and religion

You may think this as poem, but I do not know
Live openly, surrender your problem to Nature

Nature will take care of your misery
It will bring you joy when you feel depressed.

Go on carry on ....

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Fight against Race

Thank you for the comments in the previous post. It is cleaned it up. I did it. Actually not only I but we did it together.

The reason are many in world.The problems are many in the world. People are not happy with you despite the fact that you are happy with them. The only suggestion they have in their mind about you is suggestions. Only advice, some times those advice are good. Some times those message are good. It helps a lot. Some times those message are unacceptable.

What is the problem with race in this world.? What is the fault of that person who is born in one place and wants to live or work or do something is other's place. The problem is not with him. The problem is with the people who are not being open. The problem are in their mind, their some part of brain which is not working and will never work forever.

It is not realized until and unless it really needs to be realized.Race, color of skin, place of birth and the country of origin has an great impact in today's globalism world. People do not accept you with who you are but they want to know more about from where you are.

People want to know about your place of origin, language you speak, your culture and your native place. The most important is if you are not a person from Nordic region, Scandinavian region or UK region or even the person from First world or from USA, it is better for you to die before making any future plans.

Please do not be afraid of killing yourself because you will not be acceptable for whatever reasons anywhere. People are still fighting for race and race will ever long continue the journey of fight. What is the difficulty of accepting a black guy in an white place or society ? What is the reason of accepting any black or brown people in the country of white ? The reason is when a person from that place comes to visit the white territory people of that region get frighten about the competition, people get vulnerable to see the color, people even will not accept with the fact that you are real and you are better than some one who lives in that place.

It is difficult to accept some stranger in your territory only because you do not know the person, you do not trust the person and you do not want to believe the person. The world is changing my dear friends. What if one among that black brown guy will teach you the new way of living your life, living close to nature and living with peace and harmony ever after.

What if you are really tired, depressed in your own life and their is one brown guy who will heal you through his own tricks. What if the man is truthful and trustworthy ? What if- Next reincarnation of GOD even if we do not belive or we do not want to belive resides in his heart.

Jesus was born somewhere in some place but if it is mentioned that every time their would be problem in this world I will take birth and the guy belongs from some third world country. Will you still accept the fact or neglect with the statement that it is nonsense.

These are just assumption. The fight will continue and will continue ever after the life. The fight will continue because the every person is not same in earth. Their are people who easily get motivated from what their leaders asked them to do for and they are ready to be killed.

What if you are in place and you are being fooled by bunch of guys who are whites and you are only brown guy who is present. What if you will think that only once I get the chance to kill of them and kill myself I will do it now.

Terrorist are not born from Mother's womb. We make them terrorist. We are creating them every now and then. We are the culprits. Their is no one to blame. The way we behave has a great impact on society,people,country are religion also many more things.

We do not even care, do we remember how long have we used the right words and how long we have been using something ridiculous and stupid which has no impact on the other person. It is not acceptable to accept only the good comments. People should have a capabilities to accept the bad comments too.

It is difficult to accept which you do not want to accept or expect. Some times life is just like that-we do not expect but we get it. We expect but despite we expect we never even reach closer to it.

Life is journey unknown. The unknown journey in search of which we will travel, and travel and travel. We will travel only because we want to learn but we will not have enough of what we really desire of. This is called total satisfaction. Every things we do is totaly connected with the satisfaction.The level of it and the search or quest of it.

Race is one big issue which is really needed a big attention in this world to be solved. People will not like to solve it only because we know that we really hate that person who visits our place and become our competitions. What if we think he is just a friends, a messenger, a person like a post man who will deliver a message and then go away.

But why in world we will think like that- We will not think like that only because we do not accept those person easily who do not speak what we speak, who do not know culture aspect of what we respect and who looks stupid by the color of skin which does not makes any sense in our resentful body.


The race is not against only one country or two countries, It exits even between one single countries. The race is the next big issue that people should really think about. Really wipe it out from this world.

Come on people, here is the time to walk, talk, speak and share ideas hand in hand despite separating some one with differences but by mutually realizing in someone yourself.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Open the door.

The art of living is the way of living itself. One needs to go through many different phases of life. When you travel, you get to see many different things, you see the tree, people, other cars, other vehicle and many such things that too move. When many other things move, you move.

The ideas that travel should be adopted in many different case.The idea that do not travel should not be adapted.Most of the people in today's world do not just want to sit in one place and live a life. One point in time we would like to move.

The moment brings the journey, it creates the journey which might be very useful to many of us in many different ways. The joy of journey is immaculate. It is so joyful that you feel very comfortable. Sometimes even it reminds that why not if I was a flying bird. Move from one place to another, always in constant move.

Visit new places, see many new things, learn from many things that I never have seen before, heard before and watch before. What are the ways we learn or how do we get input in our body ? The input we get are probably from Eyes-we see, from ears-we listen, Nose-we smell, mouth-we taste, and what are others-next input could be touch-we feel.

The basic stuffs will always be their we will always do the basic stuffs but some time some point of time we get fed up with our daily routinized life. We then start looking for change. When we start to look for the change-we slowly thing the best way to se the change is to move.

The moment gives us both adventure and the pleasure. The both part are exciting in the journey of life. Those who are afraid of move, they are afraid of learn. While I am writing this one of my sweet fly is coming very close to me-again It is getting very closer to me, after getting closer to me I showed it the way but it could not go anywhere. It is trapped inside the room. It wants to move but it has no place to go. It is desperate to move, only because it wants to explore the real world. It has its own life, its own family and its own children.

Now, as I have to open the door to let it visit where it wants- I will open the door. Every country-should do the same for the people.

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Learn Language



Learning a language can be very difficult task. Suppose you visit to some different country and you do not know anything about that countries language, the people their also do not know a common language as we have "English" or some how they hate it. Imagine being in such situation !

What is your options ? Either you run away from that country or you have to learn the language of that country. What is the best for you ? It is a very good to learn something. The people of that country will appreciate if you can speak their language. Why ? Because it gives some kind of personal touch to their country, culture and feelings.

Some people find it very difficult to learn language, take an example of me. I am not very good at learning language. I hate it some how why ? What I think is you got to have some motivation, some level of deep motivation to learn a language plus the capability to learn a language. Why should I learn a language if we have one common language and we all should communicate in that common language. But I know many people will disagree with this attitude.

It is very good that at least we have one language in world which is common. Imagine a situation where their is no common language and you have to learn.How many language you can ask a person to learn ? The life is very limited. As life is limited and temporary everything else is temporary. It is good and positive sign that we share one thing in common and that common is the language called English.

"Sharing is loving", Sharing one common language is good but learning different languages is not good. I am in the situation where I have to learn, I must learn and I will try my level best to learn new language because everything that is easy to others i am feeling it difficult to learn.
If Mr. X can do it, why not me ? Well, it depends on the level and the understanding but I will try to pass it this time, a new language.

If not, their is always next time !

Language is a form of code word people developed for the communication between their tribes, group or community in history. We live in divided world that is why we have so many different languages and different culture, religion. It is very interesting that we have different languages, culture and religion which can be termed as change.

Change is a cycle which revolves around the time. It cannot happen without the time or movement. If somebody will ask me what is time ? I would say that time is movement. We move and that will give us the very next second.

//Language algorithm, developed by mybheja.
//05th March, 08
//Use it, learn from it and pass-on but do not copy it

language(main)
{

if (you are a newbie and want to learn a language),
{
the first thing you need to know is- ask yourself.
}

else
{
Are you motivated for that country?
Are you going to stay forever in that country ?
Do you desire to get married and settle in that country?
}
if(your answer is yes),
{
you must learn a language of that country.
}
if (your answer is no),
{
learn little bit to escape from being shame of yourself and run away.But do appreciate what you have learn.
}

//end of language algorithm

The above algorithm is true in any case. Do remember you are not eligible to copy the algorithm without my prior consent. See the Disclaimer section in the end of the page. Therefore, you can do one thing-try, try and try until you die.


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