A man full of truth inside.

As usual,life is running in the roller coaster. It travels in the faster pace then never before. Sometimes I realize that, it is not the life which is traveling in the faster pace but it is just my imagination which moves faster than my knowledge.

Talking about imagination, Einstein has rightly said that-"Imagination is better than knowledge". I think he is right. When a person imagines something- there is no limit, it is open, his mind is free, he does what he think is really good for him/her, he goes far beyond any boundaries, he is open to accept and give, he is selfless, he has no personal desires, he thinks, and then he behaves very childish, people might look at him as if- the person who is imagining is mad, psycho, looks weired and strange but he is similar to those who are existing in the earth. Only difference he has-"he is able to see what everybody has seen but he can think what nobody has thought". He is the the person full of imagination. You can call him a a man full of truth.

Later today, I was reading a article about "existence of human evolution being stopped".
You can find the article at the following link-
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/science/article4894696.ece

Here is what I have to say, in response.

Human evolution prediction is good topic to catch the readers attention. A reader will surely go through the article and think that there are no more human evolving in the near future. I want to ask, Professor Steve Jones that, "how can you predict that tomorrow you are going to be hit by a car ?" or tomorrow you are going to meet some accident ? Can you predict that ? Forget about tomorrow, the very next second or the very next clock tick cannot be easily predicted, how can you be so sure that human evolution has come to an end ?

It is good to catch the readers opinion and show that, "my prediction is going to happen". There has been no one who can predict without being predicting about himself.

Evolution will not stop, it will alway be in constant movement. It will stop only when the existence of human will be no longer. I do not know, if we evolved the way it is taught in the books but I think, it is just a "sugar for my tea".

I hope, your hard work is based on correct facts !

I hope they do.

What if your dream is very near and you suddenly loose your dream. What if you are very close to winning but just in a second you loose. What if you were the first in the race suddenly with the flick of your eyes you become last.

These questions are not joke. It happens to us. Some of us have even gone through these circumstances in our life too. What are the major phenonomen or why are these step making us think that we are not getting what we would have got.

Why most of the times we have to think that we are making the error in our life and nothing good is going on. What happens if something always works perfectly and just in a sudden twist of the time it changes all along.

What would you do then ? Will you die just thinking you have not achieved what you dreamed of or will you survive to do it all over again ? All the our pleasures lies in pain. Either the pain is of some one or you yourself, it depends.

The mind is the chooser and it choses that which you do not have in the first circumstances. Why do not people have the satisfaction of what they have. We always are looking for the change and the change does not come automatically. You have to go and fetch it then it will come along your way.

The vision is unlimited and you simply need a thinking to make your vision a reality. Those people who are on the top of bureaucracy are doing nothing in the context of country development.
Some time back, I used to read the newspaper of what is going on the context of Nepal and what are those who are leading all the way are doing but now I think I have to look again and see that nothing is going on in this context any longer.

As I cannot see any difference in terms of our country development I think we have to think again. Do we really need a political bullshit ? Why do we need those leaders and those people who are useless ? Why do we need those people who are just a statute and nothing more than that.

Why ?

Every body will give me an opinion and opinion is only the personal things. It has nothing to do with the development in any respect. Why don't any of the leader stand up and say that-
"I will not try, I will do". Why ?

Why don't any of the leaders simply say that "I have done". Doing and having done something is always a different thing. Those leaders who says, they have done are doing nothing and those who have have done and do not say are already a great leader.

We need such great leaders to lead our country. Come on, When will I see my dreams becoming reality. When would my son wake up from the peaceful sleep saying, "Dad, lets go and play". When ?

These question will always be remained unanswered. I do not know if they will ever be answered by our country leaders. I hope they do.

Go for it.

Every thing goes according to some pattern in life. A life without any purpose is life of dull. Every body in the world lives with some purpose in life, to get a good degree, to earn a lot of money, to earn a fame, to just get something and so on.

How many of us live without any purpose ? Without any thing in mind but just living for a day and do not thinking over such event which are very important in life. It is very difficult and not possible without any purpose of life to live a life.

Therefore, Living a life for those purpose is very important in one aspect but in another aspect it is not so useful only because those moments are not sure of becoming true. When we expect something to go our way, it does not come as our wish and when we do not expect anything then at very moment those things certainly comes true.

Some times in life we get lot of good surprises, in those surprises the most beautiful one is the "women". An angel who takes care of you all the time. These angels are not present with you but they are taking care of you living in somewhere in some place.

When you are alone, nothing works for you many of the times but once you get into the relationship it is more difficult to sustain the relationship. A person who is not involved in any sort of relationship is free to choose and do as per his wish but once he gets involved in a relationship he should be ready to face many tackles.

These are some minor problems one has to face first and then try to get deeper into the problems. Once the problems will be known then it will be easy to solve. A mind which is in constant struglle or unstable is mainly because of the problems with relationship. When you waste all your energy to make one relationship, how will you feel when it is not in right track or not working properly but once you solve the problem then you feel good, relaxed and with total joy.

A feeling as of this is good for health and some times very bad for health too. When a two person are involved they either fight or they love each other. Once you climb an everest of fight then you do not have anywhere to go so, you have to come down to earth again. It is the just simple as this. It is not so difficult but once you hang in to the top of the everest then you will have to face many problems just simply because it is the highest peak where both of you are fighting and one has to come down to earth.

How is it possible to come down to earth ? A simple answer would be "silence". A silence is the key, or if you cannot become silent then put a mouth full of water and do not drink it. Put it till you calm down or get cool then you can slowly remain in silence. A distance is always necessary in relationship tool. When a two person loves each other they come closer to each other. They share emotion, physical body, there every day problems and all those smaller things to each other but when they stop doing talking then it might lead to problem in a relationship.

It is always good to listen to heart and go as per the wish of it. I have seen many people around who are not committed in the relationship. I would call it as playing. A game played with thinking I will get many women in my life as my life goes on. It is not good. It is bad if the other person is really committed and really wants your togetherness and nothing else. A person's motive can be easily understood once you fall for him or her.

Have a good day !

Physical and Natural

When a person is not well or when you are not feeling good, you think you are in the stage where you really need a help at that very moment there would be no one except you.

The moment will bring a lot of lessons to learn and you have to learn all these lessons by yourself. It is very easy and it is difficult. A physical health is very much necessary to keep or maintain the balance in life. Once your physical health is not with you or I mean, your physical balance of the health is not supporting you then it will be very difficult to live a life.

Imagine that you have a pain, pain in the chest or near the area where you breath. How would you feel then ? The breathing becomes difficult and every ounce of oxygen you want to take gets difficult to go inside. Every breath you take makes your life very difficult. Despite that, you wake up early in the morning and do what has been ahead of you.

Physical, mental and environmental are there different things which has to be kept in balance. A look at physical health is very much necessary. There are many people in world who eat a lot. Eating disorder has nothing to do with a person but a person consuming lot of food has resulted in some person in some part of world without food. It has to balanced in some sense but it will never be. When a human has the highest power of all the animals, or living entity in earth today. One thing humans have forgotten is to create a balance among themselves and around the society first then country and then in world.

By the result of these circumstances, Nature has to do its job and she has to remind every one once in a while that you have to take care of the things that I have given to you. Why are you all being so lazy ?. We have floods, volcano eruption, earthquake and many more disasters. We are the creators of all of these disasters. There is no one to blame except us.

The point here is- The physical health disorder has to do with a person itself. A person invites the disorder of health problem in his body by his own consequences and by the result of his own problems similarly, Earthy problems are also due to the result of combination of entire human race and imbalance of them. Once we will understand this process then only we will realize the power of Nature and power of being a human beings.

Look at the lake near your place, you will find lot of information and lot of message from it. A place where it is very pure. A form of water collected in one place which has nothing to say or complain. It is cool and a wind blows it to make a small waves. It is silent even with the anger of biggest thunderstorm and it is very deep more deeper than we can imagine.

It cannot be explained how it maintains its own life. A physical omnipresent and transparent life. It looks as if there is no life but there is a life of every thing that exists, that we see and that we can touch or feel or smell or our senses have some effect on it. We will like to neglect it but it is not like that. A lakes fights every day to maintain the life of its physically and mentally. It has to be similar in our cases too.

Friday Supplements

Wake up early in the morning at around 2 am and just get ready to start your work. It is not easy. It is not difficult too. Once you make up your mind- you got to go for it. A guy who is working for a delivery work- paper delivery.

The deadline to submit all the papers are within 3 hours-nothing can stop you. Rain, Storm and Snow. Despite all these you got to finish your work and do it in proper manner. Imagine waking up first and then putting all your energy to doing the work. Second think of doing it. Third you got to relax for the work you did and you got to feed yourself very nicely.

People who have not done the work before will take it for granted. They can assume it as very easy task but once you do it. You know it better than anybody else. How you feel, experience and suffer with the pain of doing it. There are no alternatives despite doing it because it took 9 months to get a job.

A job in Finland which has been applied by the time I came to till date. Almost 9 months, after such a duration you get it and now you are left with your own self decision of doing to not doing. Either you struggle to survive or you die.

People who cannot see your progress are always worried about others. They will never have time to look at themselves and realize the fact that in what level of water they are dipping. A person who wants to think about himself and wants to make a dispute about others are those who you might think is close to you. He will do it for you, he will be good in front of you and at the same time he will tell thousand different things which will put you in trouble against others.

In the world with many difference it is not easy to find the similarity. It is not worth anything even if you try to find the similarity. It is just a periodic. A friend you think can be your greatest of enemy and the enemy you think can be one of a good friend. It is unknown till the known comes in your mind.

A "sorry" will not make a dead man come alive nor will "thank you" gives the pleasure of most pleasurable moments you want to see or the satisfaction you think you desire. A person either born in one land or no land is a just a person. A life is just to live and to think what else you have done for others. At the very end you will not know what has been done or will be done.

When a pain is given to you by the Nature, a pleasure will also be given. When a Nature wants you to see you happy at the same time it will also ask you to get depressed. A unexpected can bring you expected but the expected will not bring anything for joy.

A moral of life just goes something similar like that. Well, It is the Friday again, Many of people will think it is end of week but do not think it is the end of entire world. There will be many more Fridays to come just sit and watch. One could be pleasurable other could be even more pleasurable.

Lesson from a movie.

I was watching a movie yesterday, I learn a quite a good lesson from this movie. The movie is all about the relationship especially in east. That part of world where women are treated minority, where women are dominated highly by males. Not actually dominated but Male has higher advantage then Women.

The movie was about one sweet couple.These two couple were very nice to each other. They were happy in their life, married also had a small daughter of their own. The guy in the movie is a lecturer in a university. His survives and gets his basic stuffs by giving lecturers and earns which is just enough for a family. The Female in the movie seems not so satisfied with what they have, things they have in their home. The stuffs she wants to are missing because of lack of money.

One day she goes to buy a pair of shoes for her daughter what happens is the pair of shoes were little bit expensive then she expected. She decides not to buy them but one fat women who was present in the shop lends her some money to buy the shoes. She takes it. Now, That old fat women takes her to her place, shows her the city with big malls, and outstanding beauty of whole city. Later she takes her to her apartment and she calls her customer to get involved with her. The lady could not stop her and she does the mistake of being involved with the another Men.

Now, The sequence of movies goes on like this way. Every now and then the old fat women comes her home or asks her to satisfy her customer in big hotels, big malls and apartment. The story goes on. Since the girl is married and do not want to live her husband because they are living very happy life. The girl do not wants to hurt her husband somehow but could not tell her about the whole situation she is going through. She satisfies her daughter by buying small things that previously she somehow could not buy it for financial reasons and so on.

Now, One day one of the student of the lecturer sees the lecturer's wife in the big hotel. She then wants to know what is going through. What happens is, The women tells her story to this student and the student manages to tell about the this story to the lecturer in indirect way. She ask the lecturer about "what will happen or what will be the end of such story". The lecturer says- Many things can happen, It all depends, depends upon the kind of person, the person might divorce her, might kill her, might get angry and will not contact her forever and so on but he also says that their will be one person who will ignore her ignorance. That person will not forget but he will give the excuse.

That type of person will understand the situation about the women and her life. He will feel what women is going through, he will understand that- depsite being a whore or satisfying the fat women customers she is also managing household chores without showing her difficulty. That kind of person will also exits.

The students learns the lessons and at the same time the wife of the lecturer also understands what her husband was trying to say.They all are in one common room discussing about this story which the student some how indirectly says to the lecturer. During the night period, the women of lecturer appreciates the answer he gave to her student. Now she puts the question and asks weather he will give the excuse if the women was not somebody else but herself.

Lecturer knew what her wife was up to, they both start making love and the story ends. Lecturer does not replies with the answer, it means he have already given the excuse. Wow !

Relationship is not only about sex, not only about the sharing the skin with each other. Love cannot be described, it is not smell, it is not the answer to the question we ask about the love.Love is not so simple at the same time it is not so difficult. Love is the statement of question which has been remained unanswered for ages and will remain unanswered ...

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entertai/2003/may/17rekha.jpg )

Missing dot's.

I got a good comment on my previous article stating that their are lots of ifs and buts why only ifs and buts, well responding to my readers point of view I would say that-it is because their are lots of ifs and buts in our own life, every decision we make and every decision we take is based on ifs and buts.

Take an example of waking up in early morning, either I should wake up or i should sleep more.Now after one wakes up then you decide to do your morning activities either I should do my morning activities or I should take my morning coffee this is why their are lots of ifs and buts in that previous article. Here I am not criticizing my dear reader but i am supporting his point of view and trying to defend, and convince him at the same time.

Now, Let me jump to todays interesting topic of learning Finnish in 3 minutes. I am just a newbie in the language of this country, and I would like to make an apology before teaching you Finnish that I am using English Keyboard so please do not use it for serious purposes, their will be missing dots . One special form of language where you have to puts dots in characters like a, o, etc.

Let's start with basic-

add dots in last two a's
Hyvaa - Good
Hyvaa Huomenta - Good + Morning

Add Hyvaa and dots in last two a's in these words such as,

Paivaa- Day
iltaa - Evening
amulla- morning
illalla- evening
yota - night (dots in o and a)

One of the most important word in Finnish is (Kiitos-Thank you)

paljon ! Ole hyva /Ei kesta
a lot you're welcome/ Not to mention.

Anteeksi, en ymmarra (dots in both a's). En(I don't) puhu(speak) suomea(Finnish)

Now, lets jump to hi and hello-

Mita(add dots in a)Kuuluu ?
How are you ?

samoin- same
anteeksi-sorry
ei se mitaan(puts the dots in a's)-I apologies

If you wish to say NO(Ei, En, Em) these are used depending upon the verbs used in Finnish.

viikonloppua- holiday
lomaa-christmas
joulua-summer

One of the basic question when you arrive to Finland in the Helsinki airport and somebody may ask you that

Minka(add dots in a) maalainen sina(add dots in a) olet ? that means-
Of which nationality are you ?

Olen suomalainen (Finnish)
amerikkalainen(American)

carry on and add "lainen" at the end of name of the countries.But their are some exception to this.

Do remember to say that if you are not Finnish then tell,

Oletko sina(add dots in a) suomalainen ?
Are you finnish ?
Joo, olen- Yes I am
En ole suomalainen- No I am not Finnish.
Olen italialainen- I am italian.

Now, Some more basics- Kuka sina(add dot's in a) olet ? which means who are you ?
Mina(add dots in a) olen mybheja. (I am mybheja)


One of the important word for both male and female is "han" it means both "he/she". This is one of my favorite. I like it because even two boys can marry in this country and that is legal. No proudly girls anymore !

Let's now learn some numbers-(Numerot)

yksi-one
kaksi-two
kolme-three
nelja(dot's in a)-four
viisi-five
kuusi-six
seitseman(dots in a)-seven
kahdeksan-eight
yhdeksan(dots in a)-nine
kymmenen-ten

yksi+toisa-eleven

Now add toista in those above numbers. Let's say you have to multiply(kerta) two numbers.

seven(seitseman) * seven(seisteman)= fourteen(neljatoista) and so on...

20= kaksikymmenta (add dot's in a)
27=kaksikymmentaseitseman (add dot's in a)

and add "kymmenta" at the end and so on.

These are some basic Finnish language, which are not enough but these will make you a bit comfortable when you come to visit in Finland for the first time and you do not have to be embarrassed like me. When I came here for the first time, I asked something with an old man and he did not replied anything. I was shocked and I thought well, It may be because either he is deaf or I am stupid. But later I came to realize that if Finnish people do not know anything they won't speak.

"you will succeed in every way, if you know what to say."

It is very fascinating and interesting to be here in Finland. If you are human-you must at least visit this country once in your life time because, here lives a nature god. I will talk about this later in much more detail. Now, Some of vulgar words also coming up which you will never forget. The missing dot's in the world is here. You need to have heart and courage to find it.

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http://www.touchoffinland.com/images/14599.jpg)

Silence

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Everything is judge by the words, it is the words that will give you the first impression about the man. You can say that you want to talk with this man or you do not want to talk with the words he speak for you. Sometimes knowingly and unknowingly also we are hurting some people in front of us. Even if we do not want to hurt them, they will get hurt just by those words.

It is always good that we take notice of what you are going to speak, check it twice that what you are speaking is not going to come back after it is released therefore one must take proper care before saying to anyone anytime. I remember one story when i was very young, The teacher said to me that there are 3 different kind of people in this world. The Very first kind of person is that who speaks without taking in notice what he is speaking. Many people from South east Asia belongs to that group. Well, The data what I am presenting has no proof but this is what I think. Second type of people are those who take very short time and speak, i will put those people from Arab world and some part of developed world. Third kind of people are those who speak very less and take a lot of time before they speak. Generally, those kind of people I think are from Europe and America.

However, There are different kinds of people and they can be anywhere mixed up. Let me not distinguished them. Why I am talking about this phenomenon is that- We all speak but it does not matter what we speak, the most important thing that matter is what we speak and is somebody getting something out of what we are speaking. Silence is the best medicine if you are not having good times with your partner or your girl friend or any body around you.

One Gautam Buddha was meditating under a tree. One man came and spit in his face. Without a reason, he said you are coward, you do not lack courage, you are not direct, you are this and you are that... Buddha did not said anything to him. He continued what he was doing. Next day same man came and ask the sorry from the Buddha. He said, God please forgive me for my sin. Buddha replied- what you have done wrong ? Whatever you have done is not wrong. Man was shocked with his answer. This is what happens. Silence will give realization. Silence will teach you what to do and what not to do.


Silence is the best medicine for not hurting anyone. Silence will tell you about yourself, about who you are and what you have to do. Silence will give you deep satisfaction on what you are presently doing and silence is the best in realization. Silence will teach you. Silence will talk with you all the time. Suddenly when you go into silence you will then come to realize that you are not single you are not alone, there is some one with you. I don't know about others but some times I think I am talking with myself, actually it is not me alone there is some body with me with whom I am talking. I found a very beautiful, nice , mysterious, strong, wise and very best creature inside me. I don't his name, I don't know where came from, I don't know his identity, family and I do not have info about him but he is with me all the time when I am in silence. He talks with me. He says-"Santosh, you are good at what you do so just do what you feel doing". He is always very positive and He is the best I can describe." If you want to get similar partner then go in silence,live in silence and be passionately curious about him/her. Silence will lead you to that person whom I am describing.All our pleasures are connected with our deeds. With dissatisfaction comes misery and a dissatisfied man is full of misery. It is up to you do decide what you want at the end of the day.

Learn to live in silence

There can never be single world, there is always a difference between every country, every individual, every language, every culture and every religion. We are no same. We do not want some one in our home land. We do not want to give some body the opportunity because the main reason is we think that person will rule our state or our space. He will become the leader in that state. No two person in the world can be same. The main reason for this is that we all are born same physically but we all have difference in thinking. we think in the way it has affected our inner part of our brain- May be because of our culture, climate, environment, people we have met in past and because of our parents. I do not have any real figures at the moment but I can tell you that half of the people living in this planet are poor and half of them are rich. Why half-half ? because there is balance between poor and rich. Without the balance the world would not have been stable. Today it is stable. People can live in peace but it is slowly starting to increase. The stability is starting to break. There will be times when we will kill each other. We will eat the other human flesh. There will be time in future when we will have to struggle to survive. This time will come soon in near future. In west, Individual has his life, his wife, his children and he cares about them only them. Who cares about what other people is going through ? and besides that forget about their own parents and family members. If my brother is dieing for a food and struggling for some amount of money why should I go and see him ? Why should I waste my time and money for him ? This is the concept of west. In East, People are more collectivist and they think not only me, my friends family and my wife, my children all should be cared together with me. This is too much of asking. If you are earning 500. then you always think of dividing that 500 among 5 family members. This is also no good. We people from that part of world think this is good and we do not like the concept of west because we belong to that part of world. There is difference in the way we think. That difference can be overcome if we can make some balance in our mind and say that we do not belong to both the group but somewhere in between. Then, we will have a stability in our mind. If you want to have stability in your mind and you do not want to ruin your life- just living like this. Please focus on present and learn the way of living in silence like a early morning river. Silence will teach you everything. Its not words that values but the words that comes and says you something inside your heart when you remain silent.