Girls on our streets

In response to article on Nytime on title, "Girls on Our Streets", here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Mr. Kristof,

With all due respect, you article is very informative and at the same time detailed information has been provided about teenagers on the streets.

Google hit of the keyword 'sex' will result into 718,000,000 links in 0.09 seconds. By this fact only, we can clearly understand what is the basic necessity of humans. This falls under Maslow's hierarchy of needs. This is still OK but it become NOT OK when desires, passion, love and romance exceed into violence. When it starts to cross the boundaries of humanity and goes above natural law, then basic need become basic seed of pain, frustration, crime, violence, non-social acts and deeds.

I am no expert on women violence or crime but I have seen and heard the story of my close friends who has gone through the same situation and experiences. Yes, even to read such articles brings sadness in the tears and frustration of inhuman act.

Back in 80's, One wise man said-"Money can't buy everything." Today in 21st, One young child said-"Money can buy everything."

The same philosophy applies in today's context, if you have money you can even buy sex as you have mentioned of the 14 year teenagers and pimp.

I am not aware if on the streets of America you can find 14 year teenagers being the victim of prostitution and sex work. and, I have never seen it so I will not give any comment regarding such scenarios.

But I would say, in general the world is populated with stupid and violent mindset when it comes to sex. There are many such cases in developing world as you have mentioned India, Nepal, Thailand among others. I know the developed world also has the same problems.

Women are same either they are in developing world or they are from developed world. The crime is same and the violence is same.

The problem is not the solution and the solution remains very problematic.

I can give more harsh comment on this issue. It is important for all men in the world to understand following-

1. Before doing any such crime of sex or prostitution act think of the pain being women.
2. What would you do when your own children are involved in such case ?
3. Stop it please, for god's shake.

Taking religion into account, many religion experts would give different opinions on 'how to get enlightened?' The core message of being enlightened is to overcome 'maya' or 'inner desires'.

I don't ask anyone to suppress personal desire, I am asking to limit inhuman act on women. But even if I will do research on women entire my life, I will not be able to find out 'what's on women's mind?' Therefore,

Lastly, I would stop saying the quote from unknown author which states, "When a man talks dirty to a woman, it's sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95 a minute."

God bless you all !

Collective Worship

In response to the Paulo's question on "Collective Worship", here is what mybheja has to say-

Dear all,

Have you noticed that you are putting your own words and one of the blogger in this blog, ‘karen’ is ill ???

Come on fellas, pray for her–She is sick as she has written, look on the top of the comment section with her post.

May God bless ‘Karen’ !
May she overcome her illness…

I don’t know what is collective worship, I don’t care about other’s fucking opinion and I don’t give a damn on any books on worship, all are nonsense and stupid ideologies. I care to those who are close to me and I care to those who are in need of me, I care to those who knows me. I am worried about their’s problem and I am depressed if they are depressed, I am happy if they are happy because that is only thing which is important to me.

(If you will put the above statement line by line, it will become poem, if you will put those sentences in paragraphs that will become short article/opinion/thoughts… and if those words will be written or said by prophets or gurus then it becomes scriptures.)

To: Karen for her wellness…
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Come on human being, wake up
I made you, you didn’t made me
I don’t ask you to pray me
I never did, Instead
You did and still doing it,

Wake up and rise to rising sun,
pray for other like you,
I am happy if you will help others,
around you, for you, with you,
dance in the occasion
rest in the sensation
worship for humanity
you will get instantly
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God bless you all !

Q&A: SK

Dear all,

Q)What would be your view in the term ‘cheating’ and ‘faithful’ in a relationship?

A)If you have not kept relationship then the term, 'cheating' and 'faithful' would have different meanings but as you have asked 'in a relationship...' so these two words has little narrow scope. Here is what I would say,

In a relationship, 'cheating' is seen as sin, a crime, negligence, dominance. When you lack trust then you start to judge and show symptoms of different kinds of behavior to your partner. The lack of trust and lack of personal gain be it a sex, a change or different settings will result into cheating of the faithful partner. There are many settings and many scenarios for the cheating. The most common is girl having an affair with third party or, guy having an affair with third party.

-"To cheat your partner means lack of your own personal strength to satisfy your partner."

-"Cheating could could be because of lack of trust, change, motivation and satisfaction."

-"In today's world, very few or rarely you will find the true partner who will not cheat."

-"Only those chosen few are true lovers who believe in the power of love and respect mother, nature, self, humanity and environment. In addition those lovers remain as Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet Love story."

-"Cheating is a best medicine if you are not satisfied with your partner, go for it."

Now coming to another word which is, 'faithful'--

Do you believe in God? If you do, then you also believe in beauty, beast, demons and devils. If you don't then also you believe in beauty, beast, demons and devils.

In Christianity there is Satan, in Hinduism, there is Rawan, ...Similarly, ask yourself how much faithful are you with your own self? Can you kill the demon inside you? Can you live one year without having sex? Can you distance yourself with your partner and wait for him/her as long as he/she would come back again to see you? Can you...?

If your answer is 'yes, I can'
then
You are faithful child.
If your answer is 'no, I can't'
then
you are unfaithful child.


-"Believe or not to believe is your personal interest and it does not matter as long as you can alway change the your thinking according to time."

-"Being faithful in a relationship is like being faithful to the mother like a child."

I can write more but you should ask for it.

God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,


-"Acceptance and rejection are part of everyday life, HE accepts everything and rejects none."

-"Mixture of life is between the Moments of pleasure and moments of sadness, sometimes in cyclic order and sometimes in linear order."

-"Those who can find out differences among their own moments are very close to God and those who are not are close, but true realization of God is unimportant, true realization of self is more important."

-"One poor child asked to wise man, 'Sometimes I am sad and sometimes I am happy, what is the difference?' Wise man replied, 'During sad times you are taking your time to gain energy and during happy times you are throwing them out.' "

-"Birds are singing, winds are changing-direction
World is moving, but this poor life
is broken, frozen and deemed in frustration."

God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-”There is no name of God and there should never be any name, he/she/it was called God and it remains as only God.”

-”All our actions are HIS reactions.”

-”Always human misunderstood, God with different prophets of religion when they all wanted to say, ‘Believe in your inner soul and beauty of its action, those are all made for you and only you’, Wake up my child, be accountable to your duty.”

-” As Majority of human, fingers are not same similarly, it is good to accept the world as it is and not what our fantasy world sees.”

-”In my mind, you live; in my heart, you seat; in you soul, you wake up.”

God bless you all !

Eyes

Dear all,

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Eye
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What is eye? Is it a physical organ? Or,
Just a biological one of the senses,
Can we assocociate eyes with
source of light, knowledge and lessons
Or, Should we think eyes for passion?

Great Paulo asked, "what do you associate with eyes?"
Should I associate with pain? Or,
Should I associate with material gain?
Is it a perception?
Is it the mirror of reflection?

Even minds capture images through eyes,
Someone even said, "beauty lies in eyes of beholder",
What is this eye?
Oh dear God, Oh my humble Soul
Can you let me know,
If eyes is beauty,
Should I associate with hasty?

A human Life without eyes,
Cannot see the beauty of world,
Miracles of universe,
Passionate love,neither
Pleasure to lust

What should I associate with eyes?
I am poor, humble soul
God is me and I am HIM,
Should dear eye, I associate
Should you dissociate?

My poor poem is full of question,
I am curious to find answer,
Maybe you are answer to humans,
Through your sense,
You give us perception

Love, lust, passion, devotion
All is because of you,
All is love and all is you,
Alas, I remain observer in reflection

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God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-"Those who are leaders to fight the battle might know the consequences of the battle in the end."

-"War is the language of violence and those who think war is the only solution are narrow minded."

-"Human beings are born warrior, during childhood they fight to learn environment, during adulthood they fight to learn romance and during later part of their life they fight for wisdom."

-"Non-violence is the best medicine for peace, prosperity, war and many problems which are related to humanity."

-"The input and output of any war by warriors are decided by warrior himself."

God bless you all !

Falling wage

In response to article published in Nytimes on title, "Falling Wage Syndrome" by PAUL KRUGMAN, here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Sir PAUL KRUGMAN,

With all due respect, your article is very interesting and nicely informative.

Yes people are suffering because of wages cut and high competition on the job market is one reason behind such decline. There is always a chance of expecting the unexpected when it comes to present job crisis. As you said, "saving" is the best option which normally people are looking at.

At this current downturn of not and bots, What matters most is protecting what matters. Be it a Job or Health (Swine Flue..,)

Being Stranger, I cannot argue if America is going to become like Japan in case of wages decline but I think America is truly a great nation which always can come back to its originality. I personally like America since you have shown us how to "build" and "create".

You have very optimistic and confidence president, with proper advisers and proper plans, I hope the decline in wages will not flatter the entire economy.

Personally I think that, mostly this decline is because of "outsourcing", the more you send your work outside of your country especially in developed countries like India etc., in cheaper wages, the less your people will be recruited.

The companies always look for lower wages workers and higher sales. Because of such strategy, the work is being transmitted to cheaper workers in developing world.

Although, a lot research and brilliant thoughts could be put on this issue. I would like to stop by quoting Martin Luther King, "All progress is precarious, and the solution of one problem brings us face to face with another problem. "

Tharu banda

It seems the common citizens of our country will never find peace and prosperity (“Tharu banda enters day 10”, May 2, Page 4). It would be nice if bandas and chakka jams were carried out without hampering people's daily life. Because of the Tarai banda, people in the capital are having a hard time getting basic commodities. Why doesn't our government address the demands of the protesters? As Martin Luther King said, “A riot is the language of the unheard.”

Published: Letters to the Editor
The Kathmandu Post

Princess and Poor Priest Son

I saw a dream today, as everybody sees some dreams my dream was very romantic and very sad at the same time. The dream was about a love affair of princess with a poor priest child. There was a princess and her mother, the princess was going to get married and the princess mother invited priest to see the proper man for her daughter’s wedding. The princess, princess mother, priest and poor priest son was in one room checking for man for the wedding. Princess saw few man and she rejected them. After a short while, princess said to her mother, “mama, I like the priest son, he is the one who will make be happy, I know.., please mama, can I marry him?” princess mother was not happy with such response. She said, “no, the poor priest guy cannot get married with you, I would never allow this to happen…” princess was very sad and she started fighting with her mother but her mother never agreed for her proposal.

The poor guy saw in the eyes of princess and through their eyes the electrical signal of love passed on to their hearts, they both started communicating and felt that they will not be together… poor priest child was sad too…

Poor priest child said,

Oh sweet, beautiful princess
Love is the great sin,
Although, our heart is same,
World will never feel the pain
I was made for you, but
World insane will divide for material gain

Tears in heaven, useless as it remains
This bloody earth,
Is not for lovers in rain

She is your mother will you leave her?
For this poor priest son,
I cannot promise anything,
But I can promise,
Togetherness, trust, and love ever and ever again
Please don’t worry,
For happiness and satisfaction
Was born only with them

Tears in heaven, useless as it remains
This bloody earth,
Is not for lovers in rain

The dream was over and the new day started, the day where there were no vital pills for humanity such as love, hope and faith. The priest son hanged himself and died, because he thought world is full of material gain, nothing exits only money which remains and world is dividing for pleasure to gain.

Image of the day

Peace

Dear all,

Here is one Poem written by your poor writer from Himalaya.

Plot:

The poem is about one old man who is in despair. He is confused and wants to know where he could find peace. He does not know if peace has any form or beauty. He see that all his life he wanted to reach for the glory of peace but he hasn't found peace. Mostly there are thousands of question in his mind to learn and know about Peace.


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Peace
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Oh Mr. Peace, Who are you?
Where are you and How are you?
I am confused, life is in despair
My friend said, "He needs peace."
Where would your path prevail?

Do you live in humans? Or,
Do you have your own home?
Are you unattainable? Or,
You always heal the wound.

Are you Utopian? Or,
Are you just mere Word.
Should I find you inside me?
Should I walk pilgrimage? Instead,
I am in despair,
Where are you Sir Peace?

Life is like a poem
Only sorrow and pain
War in world
Humanity insane
I am confused to find you Sir Peace

When I am silent, in deep breath
Nobody around, in loneliness
I find inner peace,
Please let me know, if that's you

When I wake up, I see,
Sunlight falling on my face
Sounds of Bird Chirping
and Wind touching my hairs
Shivering and Kissing my body
Please let me know, if that's you

When I read news,
My heart bleeds hearing disease,
Pain, Suffering, Sorrow, Poverty
War, Rape, Addiction, Suicide
Murder, Homicide, Politics
Please let me know, if that's you

Will there be you, in war,
Can I find you before or after any disaster
Oh Mr. Peace, Who are you?
Where are you and How are you?

Opinions are many, very few are in peace
thy peace is peaceful
Pieces makes peace
Mr. or Mrs. Peace
Bring light, glory and your holy
Presence to cease
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God bless you all !

Q&A: What is more important Love or trust?

Dear all,

Q)If you have to choose between a person you love and a person you trust in, which one would you choose? In other words, what’s more important in a relationship: love or trust?

A)Choose that person whom you love because the person whom you love, is the person whom you already trust, and that person whom you are trusting or have started to trust, you will slowly start to love.

Mr. A is lovable and Mr. A is nice, trustworthy. Choose Mr. A
Mr. A is not lovable and Mr. A is nice, trustworthy. Choose or Not

In relationship, love cannot proceed without trust and those who are trustworthy not necessarily are capable of love.

To be in safe side, as Paulo did- it is better to say, "Both".

But, Nothing is above Love nor below love. It is love which moves the earth, it is love which brings the sunlight and energy, it is love which makes you awake and enlightened. Without love there is nothing, everything will be void, everything will explode and erode.

God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-"Every individual has two lives inside him/her, one is physical and another is real."

-"As we have mind and heart, we make our decision based on mind and heart, those who walk the path of heart will find satisfaction and those who will walk the path of mind will find material possession."

-"I am living many lives because I have to live for many individual. But sometimes it could be one live for inner peace and another live of virtual reality."

-"Everything is based on duality principal either it be science or religion but once start to see Oneness in everything and every deeds, you will be overcome grief and sorrows."

-"Oh dear, How many lives do I have? None
Come on, Religion teaches for two lives
Science says, "0 and 1"
Whom would I trust? None
Between religion and Science
Look inner inside
You will see only ONE. "


God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-”Forget yourself to understand better self.”

-”Not everything is permanent, not even universe, material gains and spiritual path, everything is temporary be its your own existence or eternity.”

-”To know me, you know better, what is me?”

-”We may end up becoming something that we do not want but in becoming something which you never wanted, you will later not regret of becoming that.”

-”I don’t want to become anybody and anything. I don’t want to become because to become human is the greatest gift of all.”

-”Those who have even little to give will never be empty of giving. and those who have more to give and does not give will always be feeling pity, later in the end.”

-”Everything is below love and every thing is love.”

-”We are moving with the cosmic love or ‘maya’, those who can self control ‘maya’ will overcome magic powers within.”

-”In the moments of pleasure and growth, we hardly fall and pray to supreme cosmic energy, it is sad that humans never understood that he lives in all of them, individually”.

-”Very few will enlighten the supreme cosmic energy of self, those who will, can heal and those who will not will need help, instead.”


God bless you all !

Q&A: What is Fear ?

Dear all,

Q)What is fear?

A)Fear is lack of our own understanding with our own self. The most fear humans have is for death. Sometimes we are fearful of love, sometimes of life and sometimes of work. Our life has become full of fear because we have never understood our own life. Most of the times we think about sex and work and least we think about our own body and life.
How many times in a day you look yourself carefully in the mirror and try to understand yourself?

This is little different in women's than in men's. In Women, they are born naturally with such power where they can more easily understand fear better than men.

Fear is because of lack of own knowledge and understanding of one's life.

Fear is also because we don't know who to surrender yourself. Those who know how to surrender will have least fear and those who will try to avoid surrender will be more affected because of fear.

It is your own decision what to choose and what not to choose.

God bless you all !

Q&A

Dear all,

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Q)Just having finished reading Brida, I find myself touched and compelled to ask you this question. I believe I have been blessed and am living a life driven by the Tradition of the Sun, but what is the best way for me to rekindle the flame and its power in time of doubt and weakness?

A)Surrender yourself.

There is no best way or worst way, there is only one way which is the way of love, surrender, peace, sharing and giving.

Having said that, In the time of doubt and weakness there is one simple medicine : Smile without conflict.

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-”I am not healer because I was born human but if you will wish to take only pain and sufferings of yours and more importantly others, you will end up becoming prophets and saints just like Jesus, Mohammad, Krishna among others.”

Give me your pain, to this poor child. I will give you my wish to heal even in darkest of the days !

God blesses you all !

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God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

-”Doubt will shout and more you will shout the worse it will become in your tiny little wacky brain.”

-”Decisions are your own, advices are of others, learn to know your on your own, life will be pleasant forever.”

-”What is right?, Nothing.
What is wrong?, Everything.
Between Nothing and Everything,
It is your life, for something
Rose will bloom,
Days will gloom
Instead of doubt, chaste shout
All that matters is purity
Live will fill up with divinity
Go on, make mistakes
Life is worth trying for severity. ”

-”You need a mind full of trust to trust you than to trust others.”

-”Monday to Friday what a rule of religion only left humans with two fun days, when you will make all day fun day, one day you will end up becoming supreme cosmic runner.”

-"Love is beyond faith, religion and hope. Love is what makes and love is what which will fake, love can heal and at the same time love can kill."

-"A book has a life of itself, very true and every object has life in itself, too."

-"All life work of any artist cannot be explained in one sentence nor can it be explained in one century, it takes longer than time itself."

-"Yes, we all need love and those who can understand, learn, keep believe, capture, share and dare to fight for love will always be legend."


God bless you all !

In Hell

"I hope but I am in pain
Nails inhale, difficult to exhale
I have no will to live, In HELL"

-Mybheja

What is a Youth ?

Song: "What is a Youth"
Lyrics by Eugene Walter
Music by Nino Rota
Vocal by Glen Weston

And here is the lyric:
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What is a youth? Impetuous fire.
What is a maid? Ice and desire.
The world wags on.

A rose will bloom
It then will fade
So does a youth.
So do-o-o-oes the fairest maid.

Comes a time when one sweet smile
Has its season for a while...Then love's in love with me.
Some they think only to marry, Others will tease and tarry,
Mine is the very best parry. Cupid he rules us all.
Caper the cape, but sing me the song,
Death will come soon to hush us along.
Sweeter than honey and bitter as gall.
Love is a task and it never will pall.
Sweeter than honey...and bitter as gall
Cupid he rules us all