Thursday, February 12, 2009

Image of the day.



We have different culture, country and religion but one thing is common in all of us, Smile.
-Mybheja.

Charles Darwin Birthday

Quotes of the day from Charles Darwin

"It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change."

"Man with all his noble qualities, with sympathy which feels for the most debased, with benevolence which extends not only to other men but to the humblest living creature, with his god-like intellect which has penetrated into the movements and constitution of the solar system- with all these exalted powers- Man still bears in his bodily frame the indelible stamp of his lowly origin."


Happy Darwin Day.
More on Darwin
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_Darwin

Good Day !

Monday, February 9, 2009

Suffering

Suffering,

Let us go first by what our renowned dictionary has to say,
1: to endure death, pain, or distress
2: to sustain loss or damage
3: to be subject to disability or handicap

etc.

My opinion on Suffering,

Suffering is another open question where this column and my thirty minutes of work on this comment or article will not be enough to all the hungry mind of PCBR (Paulo Coelho’s Blog Readers).

Anyways, Let me give a shot on “Suffering”.

Suffering inevitable, it exits and it will never fade away. As the humanity exits so is suffering. There is no remedy to it and there is no single right answer by anyone.

We are all because of Suffering, we exits because we suffer, we are living because we have to suffer. Every morning I wake up, I start my suffering and every night before I go to bed, I die. Will you belive this? Well, this is what I am.

It does not mean that, I am speaking the what Jesus spoke long time back. I am just saying that “We all are God”. We have Jesus and Mary inside us, within us. We are made up of bones, muscles and physical entiry with eternal lives of Jesus, Mary, Buddha, Allah and all.

Those people (I am sorry since I am saying them people), those were all God since they were normal human being like us. So we are too.

Christianity speaks about Jesus being the child of God, Mohammad being child of God speaks Khoran, Ram being child of God speaks Ramayan, Buddha being child of God speaks Buddhism and similar alike.

I say to all those around me, They were not a child of God but they were God and We are too. There is no child of God but only God. We all humans are God. Sufferings exits in all of us. We cannot avoid it. Sharing suffering can loosen your burden. (Well, Please disagree with me.)

Every new idea is a disagreement, Value of exisiting being is never given by us because we do not see the importance. (Why all the fuss, when Jesus was dead after being hung up for so many days in the nail pierced hands?) Why do not people realize the his value when he was alive ?

I have my own opinion which states that, “We all are God”. I agree on all the religion and respect all what they preach. You can always disagree with me on this.

Now, Let me go to the point again on Suffering-

There is nothing called “happiness, or love, or faith, or destiny or whatever…”, Everything is written well in advance when we are in Mother’s womb.

The process of writing starts from day one till nine months. These nine months are the process of writing your own scripts. The script of your life. You write it, nobody else. You do not know it, until and unless you become concisous or awake. The real awakening could take some years like 5-7 years.

When you are awake, I mean when you realize that you are alive. How? When you can see the things around you, start to remember your house, your mother, your father, your school and your religion then from that onwards your suffering starts.

Now, there is a gap between the time you are born to the time you are awake. This gap is about “adaptablity”. You are newly born and when you are newly born you want to adapt to the environment. The environment is not aboout Nature but about your home, family, religion and so on.

This is how it works. Or, atleast this is what I think.

Now, Since you have already written your script and hidden somehwere in back of your memory you do not know what you have written. It is secret script. You cannot read it all. This implies, you do not know what you have written.

Now, what your family, brother, sister, nature, country, religion will teach is observed by you. The observation will be stored in your “human brain”. The brain decides on your daily activities. The day to day work, daily hustle and bustle of your own personal lives are because of all the observation that you have done in your lives. You keep on repeating “those stuffs” which you have been influenced by or want to make some impression to.

This is how we live in Today’s world. Then suddenly, when we want to choose some career path, it does not work out. Or let us say, when you want to become Writer, you do not become writer but you end up being painter, or let us say, when you want something then that particular thing will not come in your life. (Why?)

Is this because of suffering? Yes, why not.
How?

Suffering is already written by you now, when you want to do something agaist your own script, that will not work out my dear friend.

Nobody is to blame, only you !

There is no heaven or hell. There is nothing after death. Nothing. Trust me on this. There is nothing after death because it will be same as before you were fully “awake”.

This is cyclic, We are born, we live and then we die then again after some gap, we are born again, we live and then we die. It is the cyclic process and it continues forever and ever.

Now, some of our brilliant mind will think-if we are born again then why don’t we remember anything from our past?

It is because when we write our script in Mother’s womb, we do the same when we are near the deathbed, Just before we are going to die- the before death period of “Nine Months”, we start to Erase everything that we wanted to do and did, being on this Earth.Our Consciousness, will fade away at that period.This is simple explanation.

Now, let me again look back to what Paulo’s question- Ok, I am sorry Christian question,
Is suffering important to get enlightenment ?
Well, for this I have already written one Newspaper Journal, you can find it here-
“Anyone can be a Gautam Buddha…”
http://mybheja.blogspot.com/2007/08/enlightenment.aspx

My Mother always used to say,
Sukh-ke-sub-saathi-dukh-me-na-koi. (Plenty of friends in happiness, none in Dukh or disquietude or suffering.)

I think this is the process of life, No one wants to share Suffering because you just have to suffer your own sufferings. Nobody will help you suffer your sufferings. You are the creator of your sufferings.You just have to solve your own sufferings. It is easy. You need some time and you will figure it out that, you have solved your sufferings.

By the meanwhile, you can enjoy some videos on this topic-

Spiritual fun-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=azYQqzoEjgU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=59bA0LBRcKY

Hippie’s fun-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h0OhqCYUaRY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYDulMYVj1U

Valentine's Week: Poem of the Week.



Plot: Gloomy Sunday( The day after 14th of Feb, 2009) it is, when a man's love is preparing for her marriage and this young handsome man has decided to take away his life and to rest in peace.

Note:
On 15th Feb, 2009 there will be no posting. In memory of this yong man's lady who is marrying on that day.

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Quotes of the day

"Love ain't nothing but sex misspelled."
-Harlan Ellison

“Like the wind crying endlessly through the universe, Time carries away the names and the deeds of conquerors and commoners alike. And all that we are, all that remains, is in the memories of those who cared we came this way for a brief moment.”
-Harlan Ellison

"Life is full of problems, we all have our own; the final solution of our final problem will come when we will loose our Consciousness."
-Mybheja

Bad story

(This is not predicament, the story present here is work of fiction)

On a gloomy day, with snow and white color all around, I feel lonely and alone. There is darkness and even in principals there is light, I see light without sunlight. I am alone and I am lonely now. There are long standing roads which I think will take me nowhere.

Everything is matter of time, and time changes everything. Where did I go wrong? Was it because I was not close to her? There are unanswered questions and worries to ponder and wonder my tiny brain.

People talk about "love" and I feel there is no existence of love. When you are lonely; you feel as if you should check out or rest in peace forever. What is the sole purpose of life? Everything around the world is controlled by Object around us but most importantly it is the "women". She is the one who takes control of everything around us.

It is because of Women existence, Earth is alive and living. It is because of women who has decorated this whole world. Shiva was involved with a girl. A beautiful girl in her mid twenties. She was amazing, she has beautiful long hair and joyful smile.

A phone rang in her new mobile, "What?, really"

"Oh no"

Phone went dead. Sheela collapsed. Her husband took Sheela to the hospital. After couple of days, she was alright and normal again.

What could have happend? There was a reason to satisfy Sheela's husband soul. Doctor replied she got some kind of medical "attack". She is very weak, you should take care of her Sir.

Two Years ago,

In the city of temples and busy streets shiva was on his bike, riding very fast. He was caught by the police and taken to prison. Reason: For drinking and driving. Shiva was hippie and always lived his own life in his own terms. There were no rules that he wanted to follow, there were no routes which he have not travelled. Sex, Drinks and beautiful conversation was what he was indulged into.

In a summer, Shiva met with Sheela near a frieds house. Sheela was beautiful and she was busy though, in her own work. After couple of meetings and visit to Sheela's place, She seemed to be interested in Shiva. They started to see more often. Slowly and steady, regular visit turned into intimate relationship, the intimate relationship turned into "marriage".

Today, after two years-

Sheela is just taken out of her hospital and she is with her new husband. The news she heard in a phone was from Shiva's friend who said, "Shiva committed suicide".

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Image of the day



A friend send me this image, which I am putting it here.
I do not know the author or photographer of the image. Contact me, if you hold copyright for the image.

Anyways, What do you associate with this image?

Friday, February 6, 2009

Quotes of the day

"I am fucked up in my delusion of understanding love, life and death"
-Mybheja

"Problems are only created by women, and your solutions are 'valid reasons' for most beautiful creature on earth,say women."
-Mybheja

"The advantage of the emotions is that they lead us astray, and the advantage of science is that it is not emotional. "
-Oscar Wild


"Whenever a man does a thoroughly stupid thing, it is always from the noblest motives. "
-Oscar Wild

Do not read this book- I

Ted was watching CNBC news; he is middle aged man in his late thirty. Father of two, beautiful wife Helena and is working in multinational mobile operator company in California. He is happy that today, is his pay day. He has sort out some things on his mind which he wants to buy for his upcoming wedding anniversary.

Ram is black and very talkative guy in his middle of twenty, young and very handsome. Working in top three IT company in the India’s Technological hub, city was called Bangalore now it is called Bengaluru. He is little skeptical about the change in the name of the city. He has beautiful girl friend and he is today, planning to take his girl friend Savita to best restaurant on town. He is happy that today he is going to get bonus from his Boss.

Antti is scholar, very intellectual with PhD in Mathematics, works in one of the global company in world, called NOKIA. The company’s headquarter is in Espoo, Finland. He is very dedicated in his project and he lives alone. He has a vision and motives to take his project and publish his project for entire global market. He is happy today, because he met a girl named Johanna in the S-Market, they had a good conversation and they wanted to meet again in the same place tomorrow at the same time.

Helena says, “Honey, can you cash in some extra money today”. Ted asks, why? I need to pay for Diamond rings which I have ordered for our Wedding anniversary. What? You ordered diamond ring! How can you do this honey, I was planning to purchase a new sports Car. Well, Honey please do not get angry I hope you will not mind this. Ted did not say anything and just said OK. I do not want you to buy and collect diamonds; you already have so much of diamond collection. Alright this is the final one. Helena thanked Ted.

Near S-Market in Espoo, Johanna was putting the empty bottles in the machine or recycling the empty bottles. She has little headache, she does not remember about her last night. A guy was waiting in the queue to put the empty bottles for recycling. Johanna said, “Today the climate is very good, look the sun is shining and sky is so open and blue”. A guy turned his head and look up in the sky. He agrees with Johanna and nods his head. Johanna goes to buy some food and gets shocked. She says, “Vittu, how can I be so stupid”. She looks here and there; she saws the same guy waiting for his turn to do the payments near the cash counter. She goes and asks with him, “Do you have 10 Euros?” The guy did not speak anything and takes out “10 Euros from his wallet” and gives it to Johanna. She is smiling now; she goes back to cash counter and pays the bills. While she is leaving from the S-Market, she says, “Kittos” to good looking scholar guy. They agree to meet on the same place at the same time next day.

Savita is typical traditional south Indian girl. She is shy but modern, she meets her class mate Jogesh, who is very good looking and they plan to go for the movie. Savita disagrees and says, she has meeting with Ram. Jogesh insists her to go for the movie and she cannot say NO. Jogesh is her very intimate and best friend. They are very close to each other. This is the first time Savita is going to watch a movie with Jogesh; they have never gone out before.

“What a disgusting movie, Jogesh. Why did you bought me to watch such a movie. It is similar to watching a porno, Na.”

I will not come to see the movie with you, again. Savita is angry, whatever she was thinking about Jogesh before has changed suddenly. Jogesh behavior was not good and it showed up when he took Savita to watch such a bad movie.

Well, I am sorry Savita. I thought you will like this movie. This is Class A, super movie. Said Jogesh.

It was already 11:45pm, street were lonely and dark. There was hardly anyone in the streets, Few Dogs were barking and besides that there was nothing.
Anyways, let me take you to home. Savita says, NO.

It is so dark and I am afraid if something will happen to you Savita says Jogesh.
In Jogesh bike, which he has recently purchased “Pulsar” was the name written and he is very proud of his bike. He takes Savita in the backseat and accelerates his bike with full swing.

What happened now? Asks Savita.
I do not know. May be I run out of fuel.
What? Oh no! Mom will kill me, says Savita.

Ram is very depressed and anxious he is trying to call Savita, the network is not reachable. He is thinking where she is and why she is not reachable.

Savita I am sorry but we need to walk. OK, Whatever. Says Savita.

They are walking in dark, Savita heard four or five guys shouting in the streets and dancing. They seem to be drunk.

Savita says, Jogesh I am afraid of those guys. Can’t we take another way? No, Savita do not worry. I am with you.

Four guys saw Savita and Jogesh, they started to tease them. Jogesh was hit by one guy who was carrying a empty bottle in his head. Jogesh is hurt and he gets faint.
Savita starts to shout and says, NO.

Next morning, Savita was in hospital bed. She does not remember anything. She has lost her memory and she is badly hurt.

Revolutionary Road Official Trailer



One of the third movies that I have watched this year, I think this is very nice movie written and adapted from the great Novelist Richard Yates book "Revolutionary Road".

More about Richard Yates at
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_Yates_(novelist)

I do not see any reason why you should not watch this movie. Please enjoy.

Worth Watching. :)

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Saving the Planet

Now let me give my opinion on this issue–

Humans and Nature are integral entity which is important to both. Why and how I will explain soon.

There is still lack of proper research on who was the “first human” and who created them. There are evidences from the “relgious texts” and many religious text depending upon the religion a person follows vary.

Well do not make your own conclusion at this very point. Wait a moment,

Now as asked by Paulo, How can we save the planet?

Many of us will agree that, we live on the planet called Earth. We need to save the elements present on this planet called Earth.

Think of this as following metaphor-
“Imagine a Vessel with full of water, Is Vessal or that jar or box which contains water is important or is water important?”

Who is the one who decides if water is important or Jar? We humans, think we are important. The “Water” but think if Jar or Vessal does not exits then, where would you then put “water”?

Think…

Think again …

OK, Now your Brain has given up, We can reach to this conclusion that, Both the Water and Vessal is important. Why? Because without the Vessal there is no water and without Water the importance of value of Jar or Vessal is “0″ or Null or void.

Let us suppose, I am the Creator of the Vessal and the Water. If I am the Creator then I will think both are important to me. I will keep water as well as vessal or jar.

But as the “water” is getting dirty, because of other elements such as pollution or something then what will I do then?

I will try to clean the water and put the next water in the Vessal. This is what I will do.

Because, I have to give the vessal of water to my friends and they are thirsty, they want to drink a pure water.

The same process is what is going on in Today’s world. We are making the water impure, we are in the crisis (Economy, War, Terrorism, Rape, Murder, Suicide, Bombings, Killings, Religion, Politics, Land and Poverty) to name few.

Please do not agree with me, Please.

But since I am the creator atleast I can assume. If at this very moment, I will say that, “I am the messenger of the God”. Every body will laugh at me and say, “You are the idiot and stupid.”

What if, from the bottom of my heart ask me to write- “I am God”.

It does not mean, I can perform miracles as we all expect God to do but that part of my body which says that I am God is invisible.

I think not only me, all of us are God.

We do not have to pray our religious text and religious books to find the God, Please disagree with me and stop reading. But, I will not stop to say that, “We all are God”.

Or, To make things little easier,

Assume We all are God and now our moral, social, religious, enviromental and whatever responsibilites are-

“To protect water and the jar” which means to protect us and mother earth or planet as said by Paulo.

How?

1. Be truthful.
It does not mean, you should be truthful to your partner or in your job. Be truthful to yourself. Listen to your “inner voice” which will guide you to the other side. No body should teach you to be truthful but yourself. Be honest and truthful. Becuase once you start being truthful, all of objects around you will be attracted towards you. Believe me. You will be in different world all together.

2. Smile
To whom?, Smile at yourself. Many of us do not like our own body, our own physical look and we hate ourselves, how can you love others if you do not know to love yourself? To love yourself, you have to smile at yourself too. Not only when you are feeling good but also when you are feeling sad, nostalgic and depressed. Can you do it? Well, this is one God saying to another God. And we all are God so believe me you will understand what smile means.

Now you know how to be truthful, and to smile at yourself. What will happen when all the objects around you trust you, because you just decided that you are truthful to yourself. They will start to smile at you too. Which means, object around you are smiling at you. You cannot see them, you will not feel them but you will get power to attract them very easily. Let us now jump to number 3.

3. Help
Happiness comes with help, goes with pleasure of being helped. Save a penny, save not for yourself but take out that penny and give it to the person who is singing near railway station, who is begging by performing some art, who is begging to you and asking for help. Look into the eyes of those who need them, give it to them. Giving is what we writers do, giving is what Gods do and still do not forget the main theme-”We are all God”. Do not think, please that you cannot give, think how should you give.

Writers give opinion, ideas, books, Philoshoper gives philosphy, Musician gives music, Poet gives poem, Medical Doctor give health checkup, Nature gives care, protection, environment, different climate and seasons. Everything around us, either Nature of humans we are givers and takers.

Therefore, Now we have learned three basic things which can save our plant.

-Being truthful, Smiling and Helping.

Now some of you will ask how can being truthful, smiling and helping will help the entire planet?

(Scientific explantion)
It is simple, as our metaphor of “water and vessal”, water is composed of molecules which are atoms and these atoms are single in the entity. Which could be interpreted with one single human living on this planet. When water becomes dirty of impure then it implies it is not entire community of atoms which are dirty but some of the atoms which are influenced by neighbouring atoms.

Solution: Just try to remove those atoms or give the advice to “change themselves”.

(Other perspectives)

Now, As explained in Scientific way- A general ways is that, WE are the collection of people or individuals living on this planet. Some are good and some are bad, many are changing ourselves and when majority of things increase, evolution of “something different” starts or begins.

Till now, if you have not understood what I wanted to say then contact me personally or write me email.

Remember, you are the creators and it is your responsibility to save the “water with vessal or vessal with water”

Good day!

Image of the day

Lappeenranta



Welcome to Lappeenranta !

"Why Sagoon.com?"

This is in reference to the news published in Kathmandu Post, Two Nepalese launched the Search Engine named "Sagoo.com". I was very pleased to see the work carried out by Nepalese friends but my curiosity took a backseat when I searched the one keyword in their website. There are no differences when you see the results in "Yahoo.com" and when searched for the same keyword in the "Sagoon.com". Well, Any creation is result of hardwork and I personally appreciate their effort. But why on earth I would use Sagoon when I get the same result using Yahoo? There is no doubt in Search Engine world, there is hight competition but above all, Google stands out tall. Personally, I would prefer Googling than anyother search Engine.

What do you think?

Quote of the day

"Satisfaction is all we need, who cares about how much we should make"
--Mybheja

(http://community.nytimes.com/article/comments/
2009/02/05/us/politics/05pay.html?permid=878#comment878)

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Unpredictable Women

Oh, NO! What? How can this happen? -Said Ted. Did she run away? Why did this do to me? Where did she go? Come on! Now Please do not start this crap again said Shiva. She was so beautiful and she said so many times that she loves me; you know we were in relationship for last seven years. Suddenly she started to change her habits, she stopped calling me. She was silent from last Sunday. I am so sad, Shiva. You do not understand what I am going through. There is only one feeling which is killing my mind- if I ever see her at least once, I will slap her in her face and ask why did she fake our relationship?
Life is just like this my dear friend, said Shiva. We lose something and we gain something instead. We are not the creators of lives but the creator is invisible. Sometimes we think, the “other person” is ours but I am sorry, Ted. Please remember, we are here in this planet alone and we will go alone. Look at me, often I say to people that- “I live one day and I die same day”. You are your philosophical wisdom, Come on! They are all crap. Nobody will understand what you mean by this quoted text.
Let me give you explanation of this quoted text, my dear! We wake up early in the morning, Right? Yes said Ted, then we do out “things”. Yes said Ted. Later, we during evening we go back to sleep and become “unconscious”, while you are in this state you do not know what is going on around you. Sometimes we see dreams but those are just like “feelings of wind” when you are “conscious”.
Whatever! Why did she leave me?, Asked Ted. She did not leave you; she just went in search of something which is unknown. Girls like mysteries and they are very unpredictable. With time, you need to become unpredictable as well. Most of the times we men, are very predictable. Girls can easily predict what we are thinking or what we want or what we desire. While this makes some Girls very Boring and some finds it amusing sometimes. Somebody has said it right, “Behind every successful men, there is women”. Why? Have you ever thought on this issue? Just because, with every successful men, are unpredictable in nature.
Why do you generalize Shiva? You cannot blame the entire world and all the men stating that, those who are successful are unpredictable. Ted, Listen! You can always disagree with me. I am just stating my point here. Think where you went wrong while Maria was with you. Think, my dear friend! Just last night you were writing a poem “I love you” especially for Valentine’s Day. Now see- where is she now? She might be hanging with someone else, some other Teds.
As Nature is unpredictable, so are Women. Because women are part of Nature and We are part of them. Please disagree with me, Ted. But I am your friend and I am thinking on behalf of you and your lost partner- Maria. Now tell me, how many times did you make love with her?
Shiva! Why do you want to know about sex now? Sex is integral part to make any person happy. There are some elements which a human can do, to make other people happy. For example, Sex, Smile (especially in worries) and there are more which I cannot explain now. Hmm, Interesting. Well there were few times when we did really make out but it was not often. Because, many of the times I was busy in my work and it was not daily. This is the place you are caught again! Listen, Men is giver and Women are receiver. Remember always this, Ted. More you can give, the more you will get and less you can give, less you will get. Oh not again!, What do you mean? I mean, dedication and hard work in giving, will result more into happiness and pleasure. We all live in busy world, with our busy schedule and work but do not get busy because Maria will think, you are not dedicating more time to her, it has to be in balance format. Sometimes, we dedicate our entire time to women and then it become too much. And, sometime we dedicate very few times with women and it becomes too few. Balance is what is needed, my dear friend. Balance, Remember- Just like Nature itself.
Well, this sounds very interesting. Thank you Shiva for letting me knows that, women are women and we need to be unpredictable just like nature to have balance in life and relationships. I appreciate your effort on this education.
Two days later, Ted saw Maria in the lift of Hotel Everest. She was kissing some guy. Maria stared at him and very next second ignored him. Ted felt little uncomfortable watching the scene. He went to bar and took uncontrolled pegs of whisky, “Chivas Reagel”, while taking the last peg-Ted speaks out and said, “Good bye, bitch”!
Maria why are you here, Asked Ted. I am sorry Ted, “It was my entire fault. I loved you then and I cannot live without you”, said Maria.
The sunlight fell into the eyes of Ted and he woke up in despair.

Monday, February 2, 2009

Quote of the day

"There is no right way or wrong way, there is always my way"
--Mybheja

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Image of the day

Quote of the day

Be aware that, Great distances sometimes separate dreamland from reality.
--Mybheja

I will



Beatles I Will Lyrics:
Who knows how long I've loved you
You know I love you still
Will I wait a lonely lifetime?
If you want me to I will

And if I ever saw you
I didn't catch your name
But it never really mattered
I will always feel the same

Love you forever, and forever
[ Find more Lyrics at www.mp3lyrics.org/LZ ]
Love you with all my heart
Love you whenever we're together
Love you when we're apart

And when at last I find you
Your song will fill the air
Sing it loud so I can hear you
Make it easy to be near you
For the things you do endear you to me
OH, you know I will
I will

do do do do do do do do do

la la la la la la la.
Lyrics: I Will, Beatles [end]