Thursday, June 4, 2009

Q&A: Sadness

In response to Q&A at Paulo's blog, here is what Mybheja has to say-


Dear all,

Q)How do you stop sadness?

A) Time, Patience and Sadness
You cannot stop sadness, you can only heal the sadness by letting it go, by giving more time, by being patience and by being more sad. Sadness is very strong emotion in our human body, it results loads of pain and sufferings. It creates a different you, it will stop you to work, it will stop you to do many things that you want to do. There are no one who are not Sad, I think even Jesus was sad, I think even many prophets and gurus were sad. I am normal human being but imagine a human being a God himself than even God is sad.

Sadness is result of pain and pain is because of failure. When one is failed in love, in life, in situations bad or better than you are ought to feel sad.

Climate is sad which brings darkness, and it is happy when it brings light. Mother is sad when her child hates her after she becomes old, father is sad when his siblings humiliate their name and fame. Just tell me one person who is not sad or who has not been sad. Therefore, life is filled with sadness and only sadness. Only thing which will remain with us forever. Sadness is different than suffering. (I am not going to explain suffering here)

Here is one poem for a young lover who lost his love, a girl betrayed him and left him all alone. He is feeling very sad and he has lost his will to live...,


She betrayed me, she went away
Yesterday we were together but now I feel the pain,
She killed my soul with sadness,
Leaving me all alone in darkness,
Regret I have none,
Dreams and hopes are lost and all gone,
I was born alone and I will go all alone,
Sharing was all I wanted,
But,She betrayed me, she went away
Sorrows of pain and writing this poem,
I am left in loneliness, O my saddest Poet,
Death will come but I will not be satisfied,
I will find roots of my soul search you deep inside,
She betrayed me, she went away
Sadness and sadness
Living for the last breath
Maybe time will heal,
Maybe surrender I need,
Patience I have none,
Oh dear Love, I am dieing every second,
You could have murdered me,
Before such pain and sadness,
She betrayed me, she went away
Giving me Sadness and pain...
Sadness and pain...


God blesses you !

and

God bless you all !

Obama on Obama

In response to column published at Nytimes on title, "Obama on Obama" by Friedman- here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Sir FRIEDMAN,

With all due respect, good article. Good story of Jew who wants to win the lottery. Yes, taking a chance is good option.

Well, to some extent it might be difficult to persuade or even give an influence to the Muslims community when Mr. President's family also come from the same community. Or, Maybe it can be positive aspects too.

I would suggest, expect the unexpected and speak the truth. But again, there are so many confidential stuffs our there which are hidden from the public knowledge. and sometimes it might be that there are very few confidential stuffs and public has wrong impression on "hidden agendas"

In Muslim community, speaking less and listening more works most of the times and I am not quite sure if Mr. President's broader diplomatic approach will get engage the Muslim world or not.

Good luck to Mr. President from the Stranger.

God bless you all !

Broken Dreams

In response to Paulo's workshop on Broken Dreams, here is what Mybheja has to say-


Dear Paulo,

Broken Dreams is very good theme for your latest outstanding work.

Dreams are shattered or broken by the compromise but still people should believe in the dreams. Dreams is very complicated terminology and it has wide range of opinions and book about it. Similar to love, faith, hope and religion.

I have read Eleven minutes as per the resolution this year and the dream of Maria of exploring for an adventure, marrying a good lovable man and giving and getting love is shattered on many occasions.She has to make compromises with her dreams. But finally she was destined to live happy.

Broken is nothing, dreams can never be broken. Dream is far bigger vision of human mind which are hanging like stars in the night. The dream can vary and the dream could be different. Materialistic dreams like getting an degree, buying house, car, lottery, fame, job, … Spiritual and religious dreams like enlightenment, nirvana, excitement, happiness, …
and many more.

As far as my understanding for your book, “The Winner Stands alone”- broken dreams is a good theme and when the dream are broken then human are not longer controlled by power of soul, then the mind can rule over, then the changes can be seen.

For e.g. John lenon was famous personality. A great singer and great soul. Now, there was another guy who was nobody before he killed someone who was somebody. David Chapman.

So, Broken dreams is good theme for many work and I think writers can truly explore more from such theme.
Good luck !

God blesses you !

and

God bless you all !



Paulo Coelho Reply:
June 3rd, 2009 at 1:03 pm

Dear Santosh,
interesting this idea of when dreams are shattered, then the mind rules over the soul. I don’t totally agree with the view that this is the moment when things can be seen.
When one is actually living one’s dream - this is also visible to others.
Love




Santosh Kalwar Reply:
June 3rd, 2009 at 2:25 pm

Dear Paulo,

Well yeah, things could not be seen in instant but maybe later. I also like one great idea that,

When you have a dream, universe and all other elements surrounding you will help you to achieve your dreams. e.g. “You”

God blesses you !

and

God bless you all !

Celebrity Syndrome

In response to Paulo's workshop on winner stands alone, here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Paulo,

Celebrity are public figures in our society. I don’t know why their is this difference between normal ordinary people and celebrity. Humans we all are and humans we all should be till our existence. I agree that some are genuine with talents of art, creation, science, movies, drama, and so on.

Many of those who are celebrity does not necessarily be skillful possess great talent, many of those who wanna be celebrity are highly skillful but they are not.

Every individual has some duty to perform on this earth. Some become writers like Paulo, Shakespeare, Neruda … and some become Celebrity like Johnny depp, Al Pacino, …some become artist Leonardo da vinci, … and they are known to normal ordinary human like us. The reflection of their great work divides ordinary VS extra-ordinary. Maybe this is why the world is changing. With so many great crazy peoples like these.

Everything is driven by path which is already written in your “hidden scripts”. The path unknown. We are walking a journey which is moved by mind and heart. Anyways, hardly anyone will disagree not to see him/her as an celebrity.The mass media penetration has great impact and role which has played for becoming anyone celebrity.

One wise man once said to me, “when you have little money you have little choices to make and when you have more, you will have more problems to face.”

Maybe he is true. Whatever any person do and become in life, the most important of all is “satisfaction”. What if he does not get it even after becoming a celebrity?

What if he is living not his life but a life of others? What if he never wanted to become a celebrity? But has to be a celebrity because his father/mother/… were previously one of them.

Although there would be difference between the public figures and celebrity. Greene says “You simply have to be present, in the right place at the right time.” Whereas “…public[ly famous] people were once defined as such based upon the fact their remarkable skills had brought them to the attention of the public,” (Source: Wikipedia, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Celebrity)

Finally I would say, this is very open topic and maybe someday in future some one will make medicine to become a celebrity. It will say, Take two pills in morning and in evening and in one month you are going to become celebrity. Ha ha ha…(Joke)

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-”Different people in the world makes difference in the world.”

-”Everybody is different or majority of humans are different, those who think are not are not thinking enough.”

-”Being yourself is being different self.”

-”Who is similar and who is different?
God created us equal as humans,
life is mysterious journey,
we are carpenter who creates by cutting trees,
We are HIM and HE is in me.”

-”Life is about making difference and creating impact on society be it right ways or wrong ways. Simply, because those who create and make difference has only one way.”

God bless you all !

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Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Random ideas

Dear all,


-"Mistakes are common human excuse."

-"Price that we pay are not for repent but for regain of energy lost because of stupid mistakes or foolish commitments."

-"Whatever happens, happens,
Nothing remains, permanent,
life is mysterious journey,
wake up and do all the nonsense,
what makes sense to others,
is stupid nonsense to thyself,
Whatever happens, happens,
Nothing remains, permanent
moved, touched, cared, loved,
respect, lord, different, world,
life is living in moment,
O sweet dear eternal light,
Please understand this chord."


-"We are combinations of air, water and fire, all these three vital human elements for which no survival in existence. Happiness, love, faith, hope, trust,.... are result of alternation of the above three vital human elements for individuals."


-"Don't agree with me on everything and don't disagree either, I am alien who lives in movement forever."



God bless you all !

Q&A: Can heart be wrong?

Dear all,

Q)Can heart be wrong?

A) What can be right and what can be wrong? Is our birth right? Do moving of the birds from south to north and north to south is right or wrong? After twenty five years of marriage, couple decided to divorce, is it right or wrong? …

There are many examples and many situations where we relate right vs wrong. What if you think everything is right? What is you think everything what is happening around you is wrong?

Desire of humans has density be it for sex, be it for love, be it for money, be it for having babies together, be it for fake and so on.

But there is more fascinating thing which we cannot judge and that fascinating thing we call them as “inner self” or “heart” or “soul” or whatever name you want to give.

The decision is always taken by mind and those who think of making decision from heart are like child. The childish attributes which shows in the humans are because of the heart. Why? It is simply because when some human make decision from heart they behave differently, their actions are different and their expectations are very low on anything.

By being like a child we are exploring the simple problems facing daily normal life. This could be done only by heart not mind. The childish nature, behavior and actions are true to heart but when we jump one step above and make decisions then majority of the decisions are based by mind.

Very rarely humans can make decision based on both mind and heart. Those who can will be highly successful in many aspects of life.

Therefore,

Here are few random ideas-

-”Heart and mind are two major decision makers in our human body. Those who think from heart sometimes might be wrong on few occasions but will never be wrong in most of the occasions.”

-”The mind is knowledge gainer, learner and adaptable human organ, it makes decision based on facts, previous experiences and future expected outcomes.”

-”Heart is blind like love is blind.”

-”We are alive because of heartbeat and you need someone to take care of that heartbeat together. A single heartbeat attracts another heartbeat based on choices.”

-”Never assume anything is wrong or right, why not to think whatever is presented in front of us is always good. Whatever happens will happen without any fuse.”

God bless you all !

Image of the day




Artist: Da Vinci

Quotes and Poems of the day

Dear all,

-”A word spoken can be taken back by apologies but duty performed for words spoken is hundred time better.”

-”Warrior knows the power of words spoken, he knows the secret behind the vows of his spoken words, he knows that if he will not give up his life for those words, they might someday echo him back.”

-”With the power of spoken words,
you can control the universe,
You can make the trees to dance,
you can do most of the things that nobody wants,
Just simply do it, life is few seconds for living
why not to take the chance? ”

-”Yes, yes and yes
commit everything or commit none,
Remember to speak and shun,
Your vows are mixture of lights, air and water,
Please put effort to do what you were asked for,
Welcome to Earth, and this is greatest mantras
to control the universe.”

-”Oneness is the true beauty for finding life of joy or happiness but majority among us think of finding truth, love and happiness in duality.”

God bless you all !

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Hand in my Pocket




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Lyrice
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I'm broke but I'm happy
I'm poor but I'm kind
I'm short but I'm healthy, yeah
I'm high but I'm grounded
I'm sane but I'm overwhelmed
I'm lost but I'm hopeful baby

What it all comes down to
Is that everything's gonna be fine fine fine
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is giving a high five

I feel drunk but I'm sober
I'm young and I'm underpaid
I'm tired but I'm working, yeah
I care but I'm worthless
I'm here but I'm really gone
I'm wrong and I'm sorry baby

What it all comes down to
Is that everything's gonna be quite alright
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is flicking a cigarette

What it all comes down to
Is that I haven't got it all figured out just yet
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is giving the peace sign

I'm free but I'm focused
I'm green but I'm wise
I'm shy but I'm friendly baby
I'm sad but I'm laughing
I'm brave but I'm chicken shit
I'm sick but I'm pretty baby

And what it all boils down to
Is that no one's really got it figured out just yet
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is playing the piano

What it all comes down to my friends
Is that everything's just fine fine fine
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is hailing a taxicab...
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Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Quotes and Poems of the day

Dear all,

-"Dedication, determination and devotion will make you reach your destination."

-"With heat full of passion and curiosity, life will be filled with pain and severity hang on till the day you will reveal your true beauty."

-"Most of the emotions like feelings for sex, lust and so on are generated from human eyes, imagine being blind you will have less feelings for lust."

-"Good Good Bad Bad
Miracles and Misery,
Tenderness and Determinations,
Wisdom and Boredom,
O lord, Give me Problems,
Let me understand, it goes on and on,
Till the very existence of my life,
I will solve your problems, my divine! "

-"I know many of you will hate me, I know many of you will love me, I know what you will think about me but I don't want to say that I have only acceptance, love and faith in all of you simply because you don't have them yet."

God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-"Everybody has some duty to perform in this mother earth, nobody lives without any purpose."

-"Yes, I understand life is adventurous journey and filled with painful, sad and sufferings but above all there will be bad times and good times, everything will come up eventually."

-"One poor boy asked to wise man, 'what is the purpose of my life?', 'Wise man replied, 'World sees everything in duality principal, like where there is darkness, there will be light, when there is day, there will be night, when you will have pain, you will also get pleasure and so on and so forth but boy, the day you will find Oneness will be the day you will find your purpose of life.' "

-"I know right from the beginning what is my personal legend because the creator enjoys the Crown that only King enjoys."

-"Don't try to find just who you are also try to learn who you are not."

God bless you all !

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Dear all,

-"The secret of life lies not in falling but failing, getting frustrated and being worthless to world in the fight, being useless in the war but all it takes is one fight, one final click to change the course of war."

-"God created the world in Seven days, Seven minutes of pleasure in bed,
Seven has wide meaning in each scriptures,
Five letters in the word Seven so far,
Act of war is in believing beyond your abilities with persistence, courage & Strong heart."

-"Deception is act of reception, winning or losing is fake in any mission or recession. Simplicity lies in thinking everybody is winner in his own creation."

-"Truth and the Power of Truth lies in the eyes of truthful soul, they have great electromagnetic force which can send signal even in astral world, beyond our universe to any soul whenever, wherever you desire with truth and love in heart and soul."

-"No one is born winner or loser, those are rules we follow, those who fake are faking for short period of time and those who do not fake are born with Truth."

God bless you all !

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Happy Like God

In response to article at Nytimes on title, "Happy Like God", here is what Mybheja has to say-


Dear Professor Simon,

Nice article on Happiness, I appreciate your insights on one of the vital pills of humanity called "Happiness". I don't have any background knowledge on Philosophy neither do I have any university degree because I have lived my life with only curiosity.

Well, I don't know what is happiness and I don't want to know either. Maybe the happiness lies in the eyes of those who seek to find, maybe happiness is nothing than taboo term these days. I personally think happiness=satisfaction.

Or, Kalwar's law for happiness is very simple, it states that-

"Every individual is born happy during the growth of human beings they learn new things and environment, adaptability remains the key depending upon the situation and circumstances, with changing time, with perceiving Oneness and changing climate, a person will remain happy if he/she will realize true self satisfaction in his/her mind, heart and soul."

Now, it is up to each and every individual to understand the Kalwar law for happiness.

The key elements in the above quoted statments are-

Adaptability, soul, mind, satisfaction, change, heart, environment, happy, growth, human beings, truth, new, situation, learn ...

Now, why did I put the tag in above line? It is because without these factors, majority of human beings will not be happy. This is not claim but a questions to one and all.

Most of the times we imagine true happiness lies only with God and no individual is truly happy as HIM but why not?

We live our life in such a way that we try to find the Happiness but why do you need to find the happiness when it lies just in your eyes. Either you are alone or with your partner, happiness not only lies in the faces or eyes of love but it also lies in your own soul. If you can find the roots of your soul and determine Oneness in each and everything that rolls, happiness is the one which you will get all along.

Here is one link which states the 7 steps for being happy-
http://www.kalwar.com.np/2008/12/7-things-to-do-to-be-happy.html


Your statement,

"If anyone is happy, then one imagines that God is pretty happy, and to be happy is to be like God. "

states most the answer one would like to know for a individual to remain happy. But what if there is no "ifs and buts", why don't we just see simplicity of love or happiness like early morning sunrise or dawn.? Why don't we take happiness just like Oneness ? Why do we relate happiness with surroundings or people around or play a blame game in normal day to day life?

There will be endless questions on happiness but happiness remains mysterious till date. Understand that happiness is not answer but the feeling inside your soul for self satisfaction.

God bless you all !

Crumbling Foundation

In response to the Nytimes article on title, "On Crumbling Foundation", here is what Mybheja has to say-

Dear Bob,

Another interesting article on Job cuts and recession. I don't know every morning when we read the news there is at least one or two columns for Recession and Global depression. But anyways, I appreciate your insights on these critical issues.

Yes, Jobs are getting lesser every day and Workforce is increasing higher with every moments. There are large number of Graduates coming out of the University and Graduate Schools and hardly there is job in the market. Be it a private of public sector. Let us not play a blame game here by saying ... is not offering or ... has cut jobs but let us concentrate on how you can create jobs?

I am not so much concerned about the statistics that you have shown in your column and with those bigger and larger futuristic vision, present problems cannot be resolved easily.

With the change in every breath we inhale, every thing we observe, in nature and environment, in policy and reforms, in local affairs and foreign affairs, in developed and developing world, change is going to remain forever along.

Therefore, with changing climate all around us, we need to change in the same manner. I heard the story of the young man who had a college degree and was graduated from the university. He was hired for fixed period of the time in fortune 500 companies, but with recession and depression on rise, Company decided to cut the work force since they cannot pay the payroll and they wanted to increase the workforce in developing world. What a tragedy, the young man lost his job and became the victim of the recession. What is the solution for him?

"I don't think people are not educated or not talented or not skilled, the problem now we have is everybody is so much talented that it is difficult to filter who is best in the great needs.", Said the Wise Man.

Let us see what happens next in the Economy's Front be it your land, America or Europe or other developing world. Time is the greatest story teller of all.

God bless you all !

Quotes of the day

Dear all,

-"Warrior knows how, when, where and why because he has answers to all of the questions human's have ever created."

-"Sometimes life is miserable and painful but when you step back for a while, it will accelerate soon."

-"Change is the only thing which is permanent in this world,
Paulo's blog has been changed, economy is changed,
life of millions and billions people in the world is changed,
In every moment of breath we take, change is changing everywhere."

-"Fight not for wisdom, fight for self satisfaction."

-"A professor said, 'think before you speak', to a poor boy and a poor boy replied, 'how did you became professor without thinking?' "


God bless you all !

Press Releases: "25 Sexy Poems"

Mr.Santosh Kalwar has yet another book lined up in his new project entitle, "25 Sexy Poems" published by Lulu.com, This is the Sixth book/e-book written by Mr. Kalwar.

Currently, The book is free to download in an free (only limited time period) e-book version from publisher lulu.com







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Here is the complete press-release.

Mybheja congratulates the author of the book !

Sunday, May 24, 2009

The Hidden Hunger

In response to Nytimes article on title, "The hidden hunger", here is what Mybheja has to say-


Dear Mr. Kristof,

Let me first appreciate what you have written-
Well, Good column on "hidden hunger".

Now, let me give opinion on this issue-

People are suffering everywhere be it in Guinea-Bissau, America or Europe. Personally I don't think, The problem lies not in deficiency of iron in the food, the problem lies in storing paper money in the banks for nothing. Those who have more than one homes want to build more homes, those who have more than one car want to buy more cars, those who have collected billion dollars in revenues wants to collect more revenues so on and so forth. I don't want to criticize all the rich people in the world, some of them have shown great respect and donated, worked for better place.,

As you state in your article, The deficiency of iron in the food is everywhere, yes-it seems to be true but what about the excess rate?

What will happen if you will eat iron rich food like red meat, fish, poultry, lentils, beans, leaf vegetables, tofu, chickpeas, black-eyed peas, etc.., in excess?

The hemoglobin from red meat has many side effects which has negative consequences and may increase colorectal cancer.

Although many people will suggest to change the diet plan from Non-veg to Veg.., it personally depends on individual choice and perception towards his own health. There will always be open debate on such issue.

Now coming to the poor nutrition or rich nutrition there is always a choice presented in front of us. These choices are based on first if the food is available or not, second if the food is full of iron and other minerals needed for body and third if the food satisfies out body needs or not.

I personally don't know what Westerners or Easterners think and have conception or misconceptions on malnutrition. I will suggest, change your conception with changing moment as changing time and changing season or changing journey. Even the last statement sounds philosophical it is true. See for example, President Obama Campaign for Change...

But

Let us not get our hand dirty thinking if enough food is necessary or not or what is needed in the food like iron, calcium, sodium or potassium. First you need to have food in front of you to eat. Without the food, I don't see if you will have malnutrition or lack of ingredients necessary to run the body.

As you have written in your last lines of the column,

"fortification costs virtually nothing..."

Let me ask you one more question-

If the fortification cost nothing then why are you not putting them in food? What is the reason behind not providing fortified food with rich in iron,...? Who is stopping?

Humans are adaptable beings. Without any food, claiming that lack of iron or... elements result into hidden hunger is not justified in this case.

Finally, let me conclude with the words of wise man, He said, "God gave bread and wine equally to each one of us, but how it worked inside us remained mysterious for all of us." Now see- Some have satisfied body with great energy and health and some are dieing because of poverty and disease be it in south, north or east or west.

God bless you all !

Quotes and poems of the day

-”Writing is ….. (fill in the blank yourself).”

-”Writing is writing, love is love, life is life, god is god,
What are you trying to find ?
When creator is confused with creation itself all along,
Leave this question open like sky and universe,
visions, imaginations, dreams, sacrifise, pain, sufferings,
hope, love, faith all lies on the shadows of the writers & writing, my dear lovely heart”

God bless you all !