Womenizer

When I am close to you are at the same time far from me. When you are close to me at the same time I am far from you. We are made for each other how can we be far from each other ?

Those beautiful statements mentioned in above lines are simple, meanigful and feels like reading thousand times. Why are we not same ? Why men and women are different from each other ? These some questions are in my mind which need a good reasonable satisfying answers to my ears.

We are different, physically emotionally and mentally. We are not same in any of those features. Women are always ahead in thinking. They are very fast. They think two steps ahead of men. We men cannot even imagine of what they are thinking. It is only because they like to explore, they know what will be the end results and they are not afraid to take risk.

A typical men way of living a life would be-go to office, come back home, prepare food, do some stuffs with your computer or TV and go back to bed, it can also be some parties, some discussion, some talk about women, some good laughs and some worries.

A typical women way of living a life would be do all the morning stuffs like cleaning, washing clothes, washing other stuffs, go to office, come back home, chit chat with other women, talk mostly about the clothes and perfumes, take even care of minor of details in their day to day activity, remember what they are doing, come back home and do home stuffs. Work on home too, feel depressed about what other womens have and what she does not have and so on.

It differs according to country, culture, value and ethics of people. This is almost similar however when you go through these steps you will find dissimilarity.Women like men and men like women. The fact is how many ? and how much is the end result.

In europe, it is common to change another men. A women can sleep with two or more in a given day with different men. It depends on what she is going and how she handles them, situation and what she wants.

A men on other hand has a difficulty to do that. It is difficult because all men respect the women and it is difficult to ignore the respect they give to women.

Why do women change men in developed country ? What is the basic need ? Is it sex ? Sex is not a big issue because men can easily give them pleasure of sex but what is that then make them change other men ? It might be the dependency. Women are not dependend on anyone.

If you are not dependent on the men how can you give him the respect or honor or whatsoever. It is like I don't care if you do not care. The attitude of women for instance you take an example of Finland- I would say, women and weather in finland is the same, it can change anytime.

No prediction can be done besides all the supercomputers present in computer lab about the weather only because prediction of nature has always been difficult the other species which are very close to nature is women. For them the prediction is almost impossible to do.


My analysis would never stop if I continue writing on them. Have a good working days to everyone. Be happy but do not think how.

Love in the times of cholera

When you have nothing to say, you have good reason why. When you know you are in troble you have thousand reason "because of.."

I do not know and I will not know what is the important in life, what should be done and what is going to happen.One thing fore sure, greatest fear in my head is not the death but living life the way I wanted it to live.

I would suggest to people that do not make the words weak. In day to day life, we often say that "love u" despite we do not mean it. When you do not really mean it, do not make it weak. The idea comes from the movie I was watching last night, "Love in the times of cholera" It was already known to be only because I follow the same trend.

I am not asking people to become like me, follow me or do what I am doing but I am requestig others to learn from them, be yourself, get the moral of the story from everyone. Life is too short to learn from your and only yours mistake.

In the movie, a guy who is in deep love with a sweet pricess kind of girl. He is loves her very much, he cannot explain what he is doing, he does not know wheather it is bad or good or something else. He knows that he loves her and he wants to get married with her.

Girl accepts the marriage of the guy, one things that departs them is guy's richness and good personlaity, caste and the work he does as a telegrah boy.
Both are separated, guy waits for the girl and the girl slowly starts to think that it was not love, it was illusion. She fell in for another doctor who gives her sense of sensulaity. They get married and start to have sex.

Sex is need, it is food for life to survive without sex we cannot think of living a proper life, our mind will be dull and we will behave indifferently. However it cannot be denied that without sex also we can live for some period of time.

Love is that drives the life, love is motivator, love motivates towards the journey of life. Love cannot only be for women. Love has no limits, no boundaries and no religion.

Love is love, love is the word that I could not describe when I want to.
The story continues and it goes at last after 54 years the husabad of the girl dies and the guy comes to her and proposes her. He asks her that he waited for 54 years of his life for that moment.

It was mainly because of love, they meet again and at the very old age they enjoyed being together. It is said according to my mind that when you kiss a women, if you desire to kiss again then you will stay with her for longer period but when you do not want to kiss more than once it might be because you do not love her.

Do not follow my theories but just learn from it, if you have anything to suggest please go forward. All your comments are my honors and appreciations.

The story ends with the happy note. Love in the time of cholera, one should watch that movie to learn a good lesson of love.

Two Lives

I do not know what to write, I do not have any words today to write these words to not matter as long as the feelings matter to a person. Last night I went to a friend’s house, “He said, I do not know weather I should live or kill myself” I asked him, “Why is he saying like that, what is the problem”? He does not think that life worth that much because he was in love with one girl, she was very beautiful. The girl too was in love with him. They both had very good time sharing memories, sharing food, sharing clothes and everything a nice happy couple would have. But the problem arose when one day the girl family forcefully asked her to marry a famous Doctor. The problem was that both the girl and boy were inter-caste. They did not belong to same caste. The girl was worried very much she did not knew what to decide whether she should marry a man her family is insisting on or rather marry the boy she is in love with. The guy was spell bound and he has nothing to say. He asked me this question time and again-Santosh, Why are we having this problem? What is the main cause behind this? Can you give me helpful solution? Well, I went in deep thought whole night and I finally got this idea, Life is all about living for a day. Forgot about the religion as long as you follow your heart. Two things cannot go hand in hand. One is mind and other one is heart. Religion is mixture of Mind and Heart. Mind says do this, do those? Heart says I want this. If you are deciding between what you want and what has to be done then which one you should choose? It is always the combination of these two would give you the best possible result. But if one thing misses, it will always be good to listen to your heart. Religion is one of the biggest problems our country is facing today. Every father and mother wants to marry their child with the same caste they belong to. But why? Caste does not matter as long as Feelings matter deep inside the heart. Imagine you were to die and you have just one day to live. What would you do in that case? Which caste you would choose then? Always listen to your heart, if you listen to it, you will always get what you want and you will reach where you want to go. With mind you will also reach to the destination but the challenging, entertaining, fighting, struggling journey of reaching to destination won’t be there. Life is all about learning. If the girl listens to her family members, she is not making her decision, she is living on somebody else’s decision, it is not your mistake and just let it be. So, do not worry and ask your girl also not to worry as long you both are listening to your heart, feeling silence, going back to your self and being yourself, present- in present.