Thursday, March 12, 2009

Image of the day: Lostlove

Quote of the day

"Those who search love will never get love because love wakes up with you, lives with you and dies with you."
-Mybheja

Question by Paulo Coelho's Blog Reader : Trish

Dear Mr. Santosh Kalwar,
I hate to be a bother, but could you please explain to me the meaning of your quote ‘Those who search love will never get love because love wakes up with you, lives with you and dies with you.’
Does this mean that those who are born without love (parents, siblings, relatives) or have not found love yet in terms of a life-long companion will never find it?


Dear Trish,
I am sorry if that quote gives other meaning to you, but Nobody is born without love. As I said, When you are born, it comes with you or love wakes up with you when you are awake, lives with you when you are living and dies with you when you are pronounced dead forever ! There is no difference whether a person has siblings or not. Please do not feel that when you are alone, you do not have love or you will not get love. Because, “Aloneness is the first lesson of the love.”
Let me elaborate,
Imagine A person lives his life only oneday. He wakes up and his full of energy(Social, Personal, Academic and many more). When you search something in your life, that could particulary mean- you “want” any object or entity or individual to be part of your life. When you want something unconditionally then there are chances that you might get it but when you think with some conditions then there are chances that you might not get what you are looking for.
I hope that answers about the quote. In case, it is hurtful or disappointing, I am Sorry and I will check it once again !

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Image of the day: Deathbed

Quote of the day

"Everybody around us are great teachers or Master’s because we all have one very good thing hidden inside all of us, know it yourself and think of giving because other do not has the same thing."
-Mybheja

Monday, March 9, 2009

Image of the day: Happy Holi




Happy Holi ! :)

Quote of the day

"May this holi bring you love, peace and harmony of not only your mind but also your brine."
-Mybheja

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Quote of the day

"Every ounce of breath we inhale is invention and every ounce of breath we exhale coule be re-invention."

-Mybheja

Saturday, March 7, 2009

The Piano

Smoothing music ...

Friday, March 6, 2009

Image of the day: Breakup

Quotes of the day

”Search for him after searching yourself you will find not only you but him too.”

”Everything we perceive is either the result of our influences or the perception of God.”

”We all are have bright side and dark side, search which side in you he lies and awaken it.”

”Every human being is a God; mortal and brutal.”

”Kingdom of heaven or hell does not lies anywhere except inside you, God speaks to you only when you open your truthful ears to listen to him.”

-Mybheja

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Image of the day

Quotes of the day

”Life is worth living only when it is worth spending.”

”Those who work hard for money actually do not work at all.”

”At present we are doing, in near future we will be memorizing our past with cherising memories.”

”Those who say I speak the truth, are the ones who have never understood the meaning of truth.”

”The deep meaning of life is pain and deeper meaning is happiness.”

-Mybheja

Friday, February 27, 2009

Quotes of the day

“Believe is to have faith on your own destiny.”

“Weather you believe or do not believe it does not matter as long as you are going to make it possible in the end”.

“Many of us do believe on our soul, destiny and dreams but very few of us believe the unbelievale.”

“No body believes in some one’s else dream, they start believing only after they see the same dream becoming true in reality”.

“Impossilbe means I M Possible, but it also means believing in making impossible possible.”

-Mybheja

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Quote of the day

“Every human has a book inside them hidden, you just need to be awakened enough, to see it”.
-Mybheja

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Anonymity on the Internet

Dear all,

After doing my own self marketing for the book, I am back to give my insights on this issue.

Good question especially for Researchers on the field of the Internet. (They are still working on this issue..., Sorry for the delay and Please Wait...)

Being Anonymous has many setbacks together with upbrining your either brightside or darkside or whatever you may want to call it...

Every individual is unique. See for example the faces, character and behaviors. We are different in religion, caste, creed and these attributes but we should not forget we are branches of the same common tree called, "Human beings".

Naming is done for identifiation either you like it or not. Liking is based on personal experience and attributes of the person.

When some of us might disagree that, We are having darker side of our own self, some might see the darker side as bright side too.

As God is unknown so is "somebody" who resides in all of us.

It is true that one should stand up and show their true identity and must hold accountable of their deeds, it is also true that some people do not want such identity to come out.

Can we answer where is God? Or, Who is God and what was his name? We can say for example Jesus is Our only God or Allah is Only our God or ... but why don't God himself has a real name?

God is God and Humans are Humans, He is inside all of us and we are inside him too.

In general, we need to identify people because that identifation will give values to his ideas, insights, critics and he/she is accontable for their deeds. (They must be accontable)

Fear is one issue but this is not the real issue.

Let me give one scenarios,

There are three people let us suppose: A, B and C

They all committed a sin such as killing Mr. P.

How do you identify who is the culprit? Should we say, All of the three were culprits or criminals when they all do not speak the TRUTH.

Therefore, Those who dare to speak the truth always should accept the truth. Those who do not dare to speak the TRUTH are scared to accept it.

Being Anonymous also is based on Experiences that we encounter in our lives. (While I was reading Paulo Coelho Blog Readers or Comments above) Some of us has said,

-I am business personel
-I hate to disclose my true identity simply because I might be contacted or communicated and so on...

Therefore, those who do not want to disclose their true identiy, it is OK but for those who do wrongdoings hiding behind the walls they are not doing good.

-You are first not being true to yourself
-You do not want to accept what others has to say
-You value your own judgement and do not care
-You had very bad experience

And So on...

A single human life is worth living with true identity attached to it.

Remember, The concept of dualism always resides in all of us. We feel sometime good and the very next time we might feel bad. We are just humans nothing else. We do our work, we enjoy what we do and sometimes we hate what we do not like to share, care, show or fear.

Techonlogically speaking,

There is one drawback in User Registration which we use in the Internet. The main drawback is we have got loads of updates in Operating System but where are the updates in User Registration System. We are using the same traditional system of Registration.

Username: .......
Passoword: .......

With this System, We cannot identify who the person really is and what are his motives or opinion. Here is one million dollar idea-

-Develop such a system where User will not be aware of his/own registration.
-You can track the identity of the User but User is unaware of his/her entrance on any Content Management Systems.

But Wait a Minute, (Well, I see some of you are looking me with strange eyes)

-There is some privacy issues here we need to deal with.
-When we talk about the personal privacy this new system might not work then.


We have in us two sides. Let us say for now,
-Bright side (Good side, God side, Hero side, ..)
-Dark side (Bad side, Devil side, Villian side, Pirate side,...)

To raise either of these sides are our own duty. We may raise our brigt side being truthful, accountable and transparent. Or, We may raise our dark side being untruthful, irresponsible, and non-transparent.

Did you realize one open question in the above paragraph?
-What is our duty?

I am human, I want to raise either my bright side or dark side. This is my responsibility nobody's else.

When you will raise you bright side, you will end up being brighter but when you will raise your dark side, you might end up being less at shight.

Therefore, My dear humans Please try to understand the words of wisedom.

We always hate when our father, fore-father and gradfather tell us to do this, or that simply because we think they do not think what we are currently thinking. But that is not the truth, the truth is they have passed their entire lives being what we are at this current time.

You can always disagree with me, I accept. I will kneel down and bow my head and will say you sorry if I did something wrong. Because, deeper inside me, I see the power of "Truth".

There should be "Freedom of Speech and Expression" given to all of us because that is our birthrights. Still in some countries it is not visible.

Technologically, there are some programs which could be used to track the user's identity.
Here are few links to it-
http://www.cloakfish.com/

There are some services, which can also be used for anonymizing services such as I2P or Tor for tweaking the IP address of the User but it can also be found out easily.

Remember, you cannot get away by doing the wrongdoings.

There is also a good side to it,

For example when Scientist review the research paper they send the for peer review where the author of paper is not disclosed. Those peer reviewers are also not disclosed.

Sometimes being identified could result into death and sometimes being identified could result into fate.

It always depend on the way we think.

There were plenty of ideas still in my head and I must stop it writing here for free... (Just Kidding)

Now, I think I should do more research on this issue and once I finalize and come to the conclusion of how we can reduce Anonymity I will get back to you.

You can agree or disagree it does not make any difference to what I think simply because, I accept whatever comes in my life. (Good or Bad)

Remember,

"By 20, you should be smart; by 30, you should be strong; by 40 you should be rich and by 50, you will become wise."


Good day !

God bless you all ! :)

Monday, February 23, 2009

Press Release: "A Very First Book Of Poems: Heartbreak"

Today, A free press released has been written for the title, "A Very first book of poems: Heartbreak".

The book is the collection of more than fifty poems and you can easily download the book from the Lulu.com. The book has been written for all audience and all backgrounds.





The theme of the book contains many different attributes. There is sex, religion, culture, love, hearbreak and education.

You are free to download or buy it in paperback format.

Here is the Free-Press-Release.

Mybheja Congratulates the Author of the book Mr. Santosh Kalwar !

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Quote of the day

"Love has no culture, boundaries, race and religion. It is pure and beautiful like early morning sunrise falling in lake."
--Santosh Kalwar
Verify

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Impressive e-Paper

With reference to the new story "TKP, Kantipur launch e-paper" (Feb. 18, Page1), I appreciate your effort to offer the new technology to your readers. I think readers living outside Nepal will particularly enjoy going through it everyday. Congratulations to Kantipur Publications for taking another step forward.

Source: The kathmandu Post
Published: Letters to the Editor.

Friday, February 20, 2009

Do not read this book- 3

He opens the book; the first page of the book is with the title, “Do not read this book”. He is little scared and skeptical about the entire thing which is going on around him. He thinks, “Why on earth somebody has written such a title?” Must be some crazy Author, the more I approach this piece of literature the something is bound to happen and it is very scary at times. Why should not I read this book? This is just a collection of papers and words, how can these words change what is going on around my life. There were many questions coming out of Ted’s brain and He felt too scary to find the answers to all of them at once.
He started to turn on some of the pages, he reaches to the place where there is preface and it reads,
“Life is like a book starts with title similar to your personal names, begins to give you pleasure with each and every different chapters, and finally ends with lesson learned, leaving you in loneliness again...”
What does this mean? Is it means that, the book will leave me alone after I finish reading the book, or is it means that I will be dead too? He thinks, well, I understand that my name is Ted and the book name is “Do not ...” but it also says that it will give me pleasure of reading as it gives pleasure of living a life. I will learn the lessons, what kind of lesson does the author means? I am confused and should I really turn on the pages or should I just stop it now. Then the very next line reads,

“Once you have started to read the book, you cannot stop it or you cannot close the book if you will close the book you are going to die immediately….”

Oh, Jesus! What is this now? My life is based on this tiny little book on the table; if I close it I will be dead. What should I do? Should I take the risk of closing the book? This is the worst day of my life maybe that is why I don’t like Monday’s. I hate Monday among all the days in the weeks. Oh God! Save me now! Ted is thinking and his tiny little brains are making thousand queries within himself.
Ted continues reading the rest part of the preface,
“This is the story of the man and his entire life. It will start with the life of the man and by the end of the chapters the man is going to die. He is alive at the moment you are reading the book, he is alone and he has nobody around him. Assume me as your friend and guidance for taking you to the other end, in first chapter of the book there is a story about the man and his wife. His early childhood in poor village of Nepal, the place where he was born and how he was treated among his friends. This chapter is important for the reader like you to understand poverty, racism and caste or cultural barriers which are hindrance for personal developments in human life. Second chapter will deal with his study in India. The life of the young man which completely transformed into hippie, a life full of joy and excitement, a life full of drama and melodrama, a life full of beauties and sex, a life with friends and foes, a life with desires and passion, a life with marijuana and drugs. The third chapter will deal with his life in Finland, where he educates himself and helps those around him. A life of complete enlightenment, a life where he is transformed into a Man, a life where he understand that in life a person is born alone and goes alone, a life where he believes in doing and nothing else. Fourth chapter will deal with his life in connection with your own life, how your life is related to his life and even if it is not related how you can relate it to his life. Even if you do not want to relate your own life with his life, what would be interesting lessons that you can learn from his own personal life, how can you transform his thoughts into your own and make your life better. Fifth chapter will deal with jobs and his struggle to live in Finland, how he struggles every single step to sustain his life and gets what he desires. This chapter is important because this chapter is somewhat related with the title of the book too, why you should not have started the journey of reading this book but once you have started you must finish it because your life is based on this book, NOW. Sixth Chapter is mainly focusing on cultural differences around the developing world and developed world, together with religious differences. There are many religions in the world and what the main character of the book, thinks on religion how his own ideas are different than entire religion we have ever learned. Last and final chapter of the book is Seventh Chapter. This Chapter is very important and essential for you to understand your own life and to survive death. If you read this chapter and understand the literature behind this chapter you might just escape death but you never know till you reach the final chapter of the book. Call it a preface or the structure of the book, it is up to you and your definitions, I do not care as long as you are going to stay with me for a while.
Before you start to read I want to make you clear some of the points-
1. Before you start to read each and every sentence, think what that sentence means and how could this relate in your life too.
2. You may find lot of grammatical mistakes and lack of editorial help in this book, but it does not matter as long as you understand the whole picture.
3. The book will lead you to death even if you decide not to read it. But, wait a moment- there is 1% chance that you may survive after you finish the final chapter of the book, which is chapter seven.
4. Life is pain so is love so will be your death, try to understand what I mean, if you are not scared you can always close down the book and start thinking on doing something else but remember, I am here to help you not to kill you. Since you have started to read the book you are bound to finish it otherwise you might end up in painful death.
5. Follow the above 1-4 guidelines carefully. Otherwise I am sorry, I cannot help.
6. There are three different Men in this book from three different places, Nepal, India and Finland. The book will try to present you three different culture and background even though both Nepal and India are South East Asia; they are two different nations and are different. Finland lies on North where there is more suicide rate than birth rate. Therefore, be careful you might feel so depressed that, before even finish the book you might commit suicide for yourself.
7. This is the last guideline which says- be aware of your own life. You have your own personal problems so do everybody around you. If you are near to other person, look at his eyes and try to understand what he is doing, or what she is doing, or if you are with your pet, try to understand what your pet wants now stop. Google search for keywords such as “jobs” or “love” or “sex” will give you more hits than beyond your imagination so, just calm down and take a deep breath. You might lose it the very next second and you might live best moment of your life the very next second by reading these text. Now let the journey being-

Ted has a headache now, what is this all about? Oh Jesus, why me? These seven point strict rules are so difficult to understand and what should I do with these rules? Anyways, I am going to die after I finish reading these non-sense texts. I do not remember if it does have any meaning and significance in my own life. I am confused and in total dismay thinks ted.

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